My son was falsely accused

[50intheclip]

A social worker told me that 20 yeas ago children as young as 8 would make threats to make FAs to get staff suspended, I know same sex FAs are made, I read about one where a young man had gay sex for the first time and made an FA because he was having trouble coming to terms with his homosexuality. I also know a gay guy who admitted to teling his parents he was raped by a man as a means of disclosing his sexuality to them (and not a very good one) but said the police weren't involved.

And I'm sincerely sorry to hear about anyone who has had a false accusation made against them.

[Don'tbelieveit!]

How true, especially this:
"People who SUPPORT those falsely accused of sexual abuse are WOMEN."

[Rights Fighter]

Do you accept that you have made a monumental error in suggesting that this is all about women lying about men?

If you do not, then you really do not understand the full concept of false allegations.

1: Women are falsely accused by both sexes

2: Men are falsely accused by both sexes

3: The vast majority of those who support the falsely accused be they male of female - are women.

Check out this forum and others. Most are populated by women waiting for their falsely accused men or male family members.

[Don'tbelieveit!]

Do you accept that you have made a monumental error in suggesting that this is all about women lying about men?

If you do not, then you really do not understand the full concept of false allegations.

1: Women are falsely accused by both sexes

2: Men are falsely accused by both sexes

3: The vast majority of those who support the falsely accused be they male of female - are women.

Check out this forum and others. Most are populated by women waiting for their falsely accused men or male family members.

Was this directed towards me?

[50intheclip]

If you could tell me what you believe in your professional option to be the percentage statistics of FA by gender I will accept your answer. My understanding is that the base majority of FACT rape accusations are women against men. Then sexual anise allegations are largely female-child against male. I didn't not mean to imply that women weren't FA'd by men and children. My understanding is that women FA'd make up the minority.

I did acknowledge in another thread that it is the women who are supporting the FA's who are doing a lot of the work required to protect the FA'd.

[Rights Fighter]

Was this directed towards me?

Of course not! 50intheclip made comments about women. Read it as a conversation rather that assuming this about you. It makes no sense this would be about you.....

[Don'tbelieveit!]

Just wanted to be sure... sorry for asking...

[Rights Fighter]

If you could tell me what you believe in your professional option to be the percentage statistics of FA by gender I will accept your answer. My understanding is that the base majority of FACT rape accusations are women against men. Then sexual anise allegations are largely female-child against male. I didn't not mean to imply that women weren't FA'd by men and children. My understanding is that women FA'd make up the minority.

I did acknowledge in another thread that it is the women who are supporting the FA's who are doing a lot of the work required to protect the FA'd.

What on earth is a 'professional option?'

What do you mean by 'sexual anise allegations'

If you have access to statistics, which is what I believe you meant, than why do you not provide a link to an official resources rather than make spurious claims?

If you could tell me what you believe in your professional option to be the percentage statistics of FA by gender I will accept your answer.

I don't give s*1t whether you 'accept my answer'. You are in danger of offending any ladies on here who are supporting somebody who is protesting their innocence.

[Rights Fighter]

Just wanted to be sure... sorry for asking...

No problem hon.

[Don'tbelieveit!]

Now got it! ........

[Seeking Justice]

I think there is slight confusion here arising about whether 50intheclip was *generalising* in his comments about *all* FA made. I dont think he (or she perhaps) was generalising.

The point is about the unfair playing field specifically between men and women, which in effect makes men very vulnerable to any woman who wants to make a FA and any allegation of sexual abuse made by a man against a woman would be very very very unlikely to succeed, much more so than if a woman was to make an allegation.

For example - when i was FA'd i had no record whatsoever, and it was her word against mine absolutely no evidence. i was put on remand in prison.

I would love to hear from anyone on here who believes a woman would be put on remand if a FA was made against them by a man in simliar circumstances to my case.

[RFLH]

50intheclip

50intheclip

As a new member would you please go to the 'Introduce Yourself' thread and state why you have joined this forum.

Thank you.

[myhome]

I don't give s*1t whether you 'accept my answer'. You are in danger of offending any ladies on here who are supporting somebody who is protesting their innocence.

Oh RF - this has made my day and cheered me up from myself for a while - the dogs are wondering what all the is about after yesterday's tears.
'fraid I've was already offended anyway too many ill-informed assumptions made.

In relation to mainly women being the supporters, at billykickass's trial there were 6 female supporters and 2 male - one of whom had to be there anyway.....

[lonley place]

I too am a women...the wife of a fa'd man. I supported him through the hell and still support him through the aftermath.
I humbled and honoured to have met so many strong and positive people who are fighting this battle.
People who on the support groups do just that....support each other.
Percentages matter not one jot, male and female make fa, male and female fight the hell of that fa.
At some point we all reach the end of that battle and no matter what the outcome, We will all have survived,
The biggest travesty in all this is the compensation, I really do believe that if money was removed from
the equation there would be less fa's.
Offer psychological support instead not only to rape and abuse victims but to victims of fa as well.

[myhome]

Nice thoughts LP...

Ever so sorry saddened - your thread seem to be have very much hijacked and we're very much Hugs......MH