Husband wrongfully accused of rape , don't know what to do!

[happysadcross1977]

I feel for you

Hello,

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Two weeks before we were due to marry, a girl who worked for my now husband accused him of rape. She had a few problems and both of us had been trying to help her, predominantly my husband. But it now seems clear that she had feelings towards him. She has a strong history of family and emotional problems, which we didn't know the extent of when offering her our support.



Are there any wives/ girlfriends out there , or husbands/ boyfriends that have experienced this or can offer any advice?

Thank you

I can't tell you how sorry I am that this is happening to you.

My husband and I are teachers and 15 months ago, when our younger son was only 7 weeks old, an historic allegation of sex with a minor and rape was made against him. Needless to say, it was all entirely untrue but the police fixated on him and carried out the most biased investigation I have ever heard of. When it finally came to court the judge removed all of the prosecution's 'evidence' with the exception of the woman's statement and that of her best friend. The best friend admitted in court that everything she 'knew' was second hand from the claimant, rendering it heresay.

Thankfully,my husband was found not guilty by unanimous verdict this month but it almost destroyed our lives.

The only real advice I can offer is to keep the faith and to wrack your brains for any inappropriate contact from this woman that can be confirmed - cards, emails, etc.

All my hope and faith is with you.

[cantgiveup]

Pleased to say that everything has been dropped for a second time today. Also been confirmed to us that both are NC not NFA so good news all round on that front. When FA was called by police to be told the news, she tried to make yet another allegation. Thankfully they informed her they are not interested and she isn't allowed to make any more allegations towards my hb and will be arrested immediately if she contacts him. She is also having an assessment visit tomorrow to decide what happens to her regarding her mental state.

I pray that this is the end of it now, but I am a little doubtful as its clear she has a relentless want to ruin our lives !

We have the option to go forward with PTCJ but we are unsure. It's likely that she will get off due to diminished responsibility, unless she cracks and admits which is possible, and we don't want to give her the satisfaction of a 'victory' ( she think , in her own words, she is 'the all powerful one'). Additionally we would like to move on, and don't want the reminder of it dragging on for months.

I will keep u all updated on how we move forward, in case it is of any use to anyone. And please do let me know if anyone has any advice on taking it forward.

Thank you again a million times over for your continued support and I hope I don't have to post anymore bad news this time !

WW x

So, so pleased to hear some good news and and it sounds like it really is over. She can no longer make anymore allegations towards you.

I wish you all the best for your future together and hope you can now truly enjoy the honeymoon period of your marriage!

CGU xx

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