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Hi guys,
My fiance ,,S,,(36yo) has been arrested on suspicion of rape on Wednesday at 4 in the morning, interviewed for 4 hours and sent home on bail in the evening.
The story is like this:
In march he met this girl ,,H,,(19yo) at the uni and become aware of each other. They had dinner where they concluded that they feel attracted to each other. They slowly started to exchange flirty mails and txts ,,H,, arranged for ,,S,, to go around to practice some techniques from uni while her 15 yo brother was home and ,,S,, ended up giving her a erotic massage (he is a massage therapist) but no intercourse and no oral .The txs and emails after that become very sexual like for ex: she was fantasizing about rape scenarios and double penetration even fisting! etc…another date was arranged at her place where she lives with her parents. They plan one of her rape fantasies where ,,S,, come in and kiss her and she will say no no but he will carry on etc…(Why she will get excited about rape is beyond me as I was raped when I was 13 and I never recovered(I am 35) and I will always be damaged in a way that is hard to explain and never went to the police or even my parents but this is another story)I have this rape planning on email. The day arrived and 15 mim away from her place she txt that her mum is going to be home at dinner time and maybe he should go back but in the end they decided to carry on and inventing a story for her mum as why ,,S,, was there. They had sex, mum and dad came and she became nervous, all of them had a coffee a chat and a laugh 1 1/2h later they left and they had sex twice after that. She said that her mum was not happy with him being there and she is scared of what she may do to her when she will come back home. He txt her several times to ask her if she is ok and if her mum was ok to her… no response.
,,H,, said that she has been given consent to foreplay, kissing ,fingering and oral sex performed on her but she said no to the penetration (as they planned in her fantasy) but she agreed to the other two .
He was really nice in the emails like for ex. she said she likes fisting but he wasn’t comfortable with this or she likes double penetration by two man and he will not comfortable with this either and loads of reassuring from him like: ,,this fantasy is about you and your pleasure,is your game and I want to give you your best fantasy ,, etc etc.
We think that the mother come home and raised hell and she had to come up with something. She comes from a fairly good family and I don’t think the money is the reason. She even mentioned to him that her mum can see right through her and she will kill her!
I have most of the emails (lots of them) but the txts have been deleted.
The police officers were very professional and a solicitor was present and advised ,,S,, to tell them everything that happened and he did.
He has been given the mobile back at the end of the interview along with everything else and I know this is unusual as they like to keep it as evidence along with the laptop. Is this good or bad? They said that they don’t need the emails for now. Is this good or bad?
Police said don’t worry as everything will come out in the wash and the solicitor has a good feeling about this. And they also said that is possible to get back to us within 4 weeks to tell us the nfc otherwise they will see him on bail date after 6 weeks.
What do you think?
Is no need to say that I am going out of my mind and ,,S,, is suicidal and we experience all the stuff that everybody on this site goes through. I have been reading this site for two weeks now and I feel like I know you all, crying at your stories and clapping at your banana dance.
I apologies for my writing and i imagine that you realized by now that English is not my first language.
Thank you,
S
My fiance ,,S,,(36yo) has been arrested on suspicion of rape on Wednesday at 4 in the morning, interviewed for 4 hours and sent home on bail in the evening.
The story is like this:
In march he met this girl ,,H,,(19yo) at the uni and become aware of each other. They had dinner where they concluded that they feel attracted to each other. They slowly started to exchange flirty mails and txts ,,H,, arranged for ,,S,, to go around to practice some techniques from uni while her 15 yo brother was home and ,,S,, ended up giving her a erotic massage (he is a massage therapist) but no intercourse and no oral .The txs and emails after that become very sexual like for ex: she was fantasizing about rape scenarios and double penetration even fisting! etc…another date was arranged at her place where she lives with her parents. They plan one of her rape fantasies where ,,S,, come in and kiss her and she will say no no but he will carry on etc…(Why she will get excited about rape is beyond me as I was raped when I was 13 and I never recovered(I am 35) and I will always be damaged in a way that is hard to explain and never went to the police or even my parents but this is another story)I have this rape planning on email. The day arrived and 15 mim away from her place she txt that her mum is going to be home at dinner time and maybe he should go back but in the end they decided to carry on and inventing a story for her mum as why ,,S,, was there. They had sex, mum and dad came and she became nervous, all of them had a coffee a chat and a laugh 1 1/2h later they left and they had sex twice after that. She said that her mum was not happy with him being there and she is scared of what she may do to her when she will come back home. He txt her several times to ask her if she is ok and if her mum was ok to her… no response.
,,H,, said that she has been given consent to foreplay, kissing ,fingering and oral sex performed on her but she said no to the penetration (as they planned in her fantasy) but she agreed to the other two .
He was really nice in the emails like for ex. she said she likes fisting but he wasn’t comfortable with this or she likes double penetration by two man and he will not comfortable with this either and loads of reassuring from him like: ,,this fantasy is about you and your pleasure,is your game and I want to give you your best fantasy ,, etc etc.
We think that the mother come home and raised hell and she had to come up with something. She comes from a fairly good family and I don’t think the money is the reason. She even mentioned to him that her mum can see right through her and she will kill her!
I have most of the emails (lots of them) but the txts have been deleted.
The police officers were very professional and a solicitor was present and advised ,,S,, to tell them everything that happened and he did.
He has been given the mobile back at the end of the interview along with everything else and I know this is unusual as they like to keep it as evidence along with the laptop. Is this good or bad? They said that they don’t need the emails for now. Is this good or bad?
Police said don’t worry as everything will come out in the wash and the solicitor has a good feeling about this. And they also said that is possible to get back to us within 4 weeks to tell us the nfc otherwise they will see him on bail date after 6 weeks.
What do you think?
Is no need to say that I am going out of my mind and ,,S,, is suicidal and we experience all the stuff that everybody on this site goes through. I have been reading this site for two weeks now and I feel like I know you all, crying at your stories and clapping at your banana dance.
I apologies for my writing and i imagine that you realized by now that English is not my first language.
Thank you,
S
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