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Morning all.
I find myself here this morning after being falsely (to me) accused of rape last night.
I was in bed yesterday morning and heard a abanging on the door. Went downstairs in my boxers and saw someone peeping through the glass panel on the door. Went to the kitchen which has an open window to the front and asked who they were. (5 of them there)
The gentleman said he's from Essex police and could he come in for a minute. I said sure, however they had to use the back door as my keys were with my daughter who had stayed with her cousins for the night accross the road. They did come through the back and when he came in told me I had been accused of rape, so he was arresting me under suspicion as someone had come forward to say I had raped them and also possesed child pornography. I asked who by. He mentioned my exes name and my words to him were, along the lines, lets crack on with it, I know why this is happening.
I was allowed to dress up as I was in my boxers and taken to xxx police station. I had called my daughter over from across the road as I was allowed to and she came to open the door and stayed with the rest of the police who searched the house. (She's 14 by the way)
When I got to the police station, I was 'processed', put in a cell and not long afterwards was interviewed as I asked to get on with it and felt I didnt need a lawyer telling the truth. I also knew anything of such did not happen, I dont posess any child pornorgraphy (even that sounds sick typing it out like that) and if they went through my PC, phone or tablet, will realise I dont and will never posess such images.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, I was accused by my ex I broke up from 18 months ago. We bought a house together, had a fairly okay life but when we were together she never seemed to not be in debt. She stole from me, and even from her family. When we bought the house, I put a deposit of £30k she borrowed £10k off her parents. With the intention of paying her parents back. I even gave her money in cash to give her parents back which she never game them and she was a cheat! Also, she got caught stealing from work which became a police case and was found guilty. I was arrested but exonerated as I had nothing to do with it. She would order ink cartridges at work and have them delivered to the home in my name and sign for them. I was working on the Olympics site at the time so my movements were easily accounted for.
Eventually I'd had enough and called it off. She wanted us to continue I refused and her parting words were, I will make your life hell. My reply at the time was
My destiny is not in your hands. God is for me, God is not against me, I am not a bad person so the truth will always prevail!
When she left, I offered her £1k to walk away from the house due to all the monies I'd paid, mortgage arrears, thefts of my money and she told me to feck off. Her solicitors will be in touch. Please bear with me, there is a reason for this disclosure
Anyway, got my own solicitors and it turns out (my solicitors found this out), she had been made bankrupt while with me and she had a charging order in her name for £21k on the house which I did not know about. That is all we thought. On the discovery of this, even if the house was sold with arrears, she would never get a penny as the house value had stayed stagnant.
This was made known to her solicitors and I think after advice knew she couldnt get a penny decided that she would walk provided the charging orders on the house would be sorted! Provided she wouldnt have to shell any money out
We were in the middle of sorting this when another charging order was now found out in both our names. I knew that since we had signed the deeds for the house, I had never signed anything else so how come an order was put on the house in my name. Solictor got a copy of this and lo and behold, signature had been forged and her sisters had stood as witnesses. I called her sister immediately and she said, she never signed anything. COuldnt get hold of her other sister.
As this was unfolding, my solicitor advised to report this to the police which I did on 23rd of March. Obviously in my opinion, this has acted as a catalyst to the allegations of rape as I was told she would be arrested.
Most of what I've said above was mentioned in my interview yesterday and a lot more which is too long to write abut but....
Now here I am with an accusation of rape and having indecent pictures around my neck. I'm not that way inclined, never have done, never will..
I was bailed to return on August the 4th slightly after the interview. Now the waiting begins. Couldnt sleep last night but I have a great family and great friends around me. I will be strong and hope the police can see this for all it is.
Funny how she accuses me of raping her in 2004/5 when we first met and decided to stay with me till 2011???
Now, should I see a solicitor or just wait till August?
I am ringing my solicitor dealing with the house how the wounded have replied by 9 this morning though
I find myself here this morning after being falsely (to me) accused of rape last night.
I was in bed yesterday morning and heard a abanging on the door. Went downstairs in my boxers and saw someone peeping through the glass panel on the door. Went to the kitchen which has an open window to the front and asked who they were. (5 of them there)
The gentleman said he's from Essex police and could he come in for a minute. I said sure, however they had to use the back door as my keys were with my daughter who had stayed with her cousins for the night accross the road. They did come through the back and when he came in told me I had been accused of rape, so he was arresting me under suspicion as someone had come forward to say I had raped them and also possesed child pornography. I asked who by. He mentioned my exes name and my words to him were, along the lines, lets crack on with it, I know why this is happening.
I was allowed to dress up as I was in my boxers and taken to xxx police station. I had called my daughter over from across the road as I was allowed to and she came to open the door and stayed with the rest of the police who searched the house. (She's 14 by the way)
When I got to the police station, I was 'processed', put in a cell and not long afterwards was interviewed as I asked to get on with it and felt I didnt need a lawyer telling the truth. I also knew anything of such did not happen, I dont posess any child pornorgraphy (even that sounds sick typing it out like that) and if they went through my PC, phone or tablet, will realise I dont and will never posess such images.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, I was accused by my ex I broke up from 18 months ago. We bought a house together, had a fairly okay life but when we were together she never seemed to not be in debt. She stole from me, and even from her family. When we bought the house, I put a deposit of £30k she borrowed £10k off her parents. With the intention of paying her parents back. I even gave her money in cash to give her parents back which she never game them and she was a cheat! Also, she got caught stealing from work which became a police case and was found guilty. I was arrested but exonerated as I had nothing to do with it. She would order ink cartridges at work and have them delivered to the home in my name and sign for them. I was working on the Olympics site at the time so my movements were easily accounted for.
Eventually I'd had enough and called it off. She wanted us to continue I refused and her parting words were, I will make your life hell. My reply at the time was
My destiny is not in your hands. God is for me, God is not against me, I am not a bad person so the truth will always prevail!
When she left, I offered her £1k to walk away from the house due to all the monies I'd paid, mortgage arrears, thefts of my money and she told me to feck off. Her solicitors will be in touch. Please bear with me, there is a reason for this disclosure
Anyway, got my own solicitors and it turns out (my solicitors found this out), she had been made bankrupt while with me and she had a charging order in her name for £21k on the house which I did not know about. That is all we thought. On the discovery of this, even if the house was sold with arrears, she would never get a penny as the house value had stayed stagnant.
This was made known to her solicitors and I think after advice knew she couldnt get a penny decided that she would walk provided the charging orders on the house would be sorted! Provided she wouldnt have to shell any money out
We were in the middle of sorting this when another charging order was now found out in both our names. I knew that since we had signed the deeds for the house, I had never signed anything else so how come an order was put on the house in my name. Solictor got a copy of this and lo and behold, signature had been forged and her sisters had stood as witnesses. I called her sister immediately and she said, she never signed anything. COuldnt get hold of her other sister.
As this was unfolding, my solicitor advised to report this to the police which I did on 23rd of March. Obviously in my opinion, this has acted as a catalyst to the allegations of rape as I was told she would be arrested.
Most of what I've said above was mentioned in my interview yesterday and a lot more which is too long to write abut but....
Now here I am with an accusation of rape and having indecent pictures around my neck. I'm not that way inclined, never have done, never will..
I was bailed to return on August the 4th slightly after the interview. Now the waiting begins. Couldnt sleep last night but I have a great family and great friends around me. I will be strong and hope the police can see this for all it is.
Funny how she accuses me of raping her in 2004/5 when we first met and decided to stay with me till 2011???
Now, should I see a solicitor or just wait till August?
I am ringing my solicitor dealing with the house how the wounded have replied by 9 this morning though
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