HI MnH - this whole situation is so hard, unjust, unfair, unbelievable and any other un word you can think of......I think for anyone involved - whether supporting someone or being the one who is FA what you see on the outside is not what's going on on the inside, and sometimes it's harder for the supporter because all the focus is on the one who has been FA and you feel you have to be strong for them - but you need support too so make sure that you have someone you can "off-load" to and support you. Maybe in a quieter, calmer moment the two of you can have a chat about how the situation is affecting both of you and perhaps work out a way you can be a support to each other. Bottling things up can only eventually lead to an explosion - just like a pressure cooker.......
all he best wishes for you both MH
all he best wishes for you both MH
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