Hi there
First time on the forum and there are some great posts - thought I'd share my experience
My fiancé has been accused of rape and he is in court this week - so by Friday he will either come back home or face prison !! Awful I have been throwing up all week and just can't see a light at the end of the trouble ! Feel for my fiancé but it's difficult for me too - which people don't really think about the partner or wife that's also involved in tis terrible situation !? I decided to "stand by my man" as I know he didn't rape the girl involved ! He went away with a group of people and got drunk and ended up in a hotel room with a colleague of his ! She invited him in and flirted with him all night ( 4 witnesses all wote this in their statement ) he made a stupid mistake but he's no paying for it as the woman (27) has accused him of rape - very difficult as it happened in Scotland so the law and court system is totally different ! Sorry I'm all over the place but my head is fried with it all !! Anyway she had ruined his live and mine - I have had to change jobs ( thankfully i could change! ) but hate it and my fiancé who tried to apply for new jobs got a new job but he didn't get too far as she wrote a letter telling them that he had a court case lurking so they with drew their over !!
He's on day 2 - she's given her statement which was well rehearsed ! She's given 5 different statements which are all different and don't add up and her best friend who was with her on the night has given evidence AGAINST her !! But that doesn't stop the jury from deciding he's guilty !! So Friday is d day - I'm not there as its a closed court but it's been the worst week !! If he gets sentenced he will go to prison for a long time !! How can she stand up there and tell lies and potentially send an innocent mn down ?? Has anyone gone thro this ?? And what happens if he does get sentenced ! God forbid !!! Please help I'm in despair !!
First time on the forum and there are some great posts - thought I'd share my experience
My fiancé has been accused of rape and he is in court this week - so by Friday he will either come back home or face prison !! Awful I have been throwing up all week and just can't see a light at the end of the trouble ! Feel for my fiancé but it's difficult for me too - which people don't really think about the partner or wife that's also involved in tis terrible situation !? I decided to "stand by my man" as I know he didn't rape the girl involved ! He went away with a group of people and got drunk and ended up in a hotel room with a colleague of his ! She invited him in and flirted with him all night ( 4 witnesses all wote this in their statement ) he made a stupid mistake but he's no paying for it as the woman (27) has accused him of rape - very difficult as it happened in Scotland so the law and court system is totally different ! Sorry I'm all over the place but my head is fried with it all !! Anyway she had ruined his live and mine - I have had to change jobs ( thankfully i could change! ) but hate it and my fiancé who tried to apply for new jobs got a new job but he didn't get too far as she wrote a letter telling them that he had a court case lurking so they with drew their over !!
He's on day 2 - she's given her statement which was well rehearsed ! She's given 5 different statements which are all different and don't add up and her best friend who was with her on the night has given evidence AGAINST her !! But that doesn't stop the jury from deciding he's guilty !! So Friday is d day - I'm not there as its a closed court but it's been the worst week !! If he gets sentenced he will go to prison for a long time !! How can she stand up there and tell lies and potentially send an innocent mn down ?? Has anyone gone thro this ?? And what happens if he does get sentenced ! God forbid !!! Please help I'm in despair !!
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