escort accusing me of rape.

[freewayz]

I feel so ashamed of myself right now. Last night I called an escort because I was in a town I did know. I talk to her and we exchange information as to where I was staying. She gets to the hotel and I give her the money and we had sex this person did not in any way shape of form told me to stop. We finished and she went on her way... this morning she sends me a text saying I raped her and now I'm not sure what to do. I looked in this site for answers but did not find any. Please any advice as to what I should do would be appreciated I am now just waiting to see if the police come ans arrest me.

[friday]

Hi freewayz,

You are obviously very worried and that's understandable. You did something you were ashamed of (seeing an escort) but that doesn't make it ok for someone to make a false allegation. Do you know if she has reported the allegation to the police? If she hasn't then do not go to the police. Keep any messages between the two of you. Perhaps writing out the events would help (e.g. met her at xpm at the hotel) just in case she does make a report. I'm sure someone will be online tomorrow with more experience but for now try not to worry (easier said than done).

[freewayz]

Thanks for the advise. I am not sure what she has done yet all I got was a message from her that I raped her. I am waiting to see if the cops come and get me but I have all the messages and even one that said I did not want to come and see her but she insisted to come to the hotel.

[Casehardened]

Presumably you got her contact phone number from somewhere; newspaper advert, website, etc.

Save this information somehow as a hard copy or screenshot in case she subsequently deletes her details to disguise the fact she works as an escort.

Was there a dispute over payment to prompt the accusation?

PS You wrote the post at midnight UK time, but refer to 'last night' and 'this morning'; which country are you posting from?

[RFLH]

to me it sounds as if it could be blackmail - if she knows that you're married but hasn't reported to the police.

Do as advised - which is nothing but write down events.