Wife has falsely accused me of rape

[whatsgoingon?]

But on a more positive note, I’m now seeing my children regularly, only for a couple of hours a week but even so that gives me something to look forward to.......

That's brilliant news - something to really look forward to!

Take care.

[Hol]

I haven’t posted for a few weeks so just though I would give a bit of an update to all the kind people who have given me so much wonderful advice and support at such a low point in my life........

I’m still spending most of my time at work (about 12 to 14 hours a day 7 days a week) the days seem to just fly by! But best of all it takes my mind off things

However having said that the last few days have been a bit of a roller-coaster of emotions, Friday and Saturday being particularly bad days when something happened that brought back the reality of the situation that I find myself in and how much my life has changed.

But on a more positive note, I’m now seeing my children regularly, only for a couple of hours a week but even so that gives me something to look forward to......in fact that is the only thing in my life now that I do have to look forward to and it’s what keeps me from jumping off the nearest bridge!

Still no news good or bad on my case so its still a waiting game......

HI BROWNDOWN IM REALLY GLAD THINGS ARE LOOKING BETTER FOR YOU, DESPITE WHAT'S HAPPENING. I HAVEN'T BEEN ON FOR A WHILE EITHER. I HOPE YOU AND SPARKS HAVE A HAPPY ENDING.
I JUST WANT TO TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SAY A BIG THANKYOU TO EVERYONE THAT'S HELPED ME AND MY HUBBY AND MY FAMILY THROUGH OUR ORDEAL. EVERYTHING IS GOING FINE NOW. THANKYOU LP FOR ALL YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM AND FOR BEING A FRIEND. SORRY I HAVEN'T GOT ALL YOUR NAMES DOWN.
WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS THAT, I HAD A BREAKDOWN NOT LONG AGO, ENS WHY I HAVEN'T BEEN ON. ALL THE AFTER EFFECTS I THINK. SO I HAVE DECIDED THAT I AM GOING TO SAY GOODBYE TO YOU ALL, BUT NOT WITHOUT TEARS. I THINK THIS SIGHT IS INCREDIBLE AND YOU ARE ALL WORTH YOUR WEIGHT IN GOLD. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE WITHOUT YOU.
I NEED TO MOVE ON AND PUT ALL THIS BEHIND ME. PART OF ME FEELS SELFISH FOR NOT BEING HERE FOR YOU GUYS LIKE YOU WE'RE FOR ME. I WILL ALWAYS PRAY FOR YOU AND YOU TOO CAN START LIVING AGAIN. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING, BUT I WILL FACE EVERY DAY AS IT COMES TILL I LOOK BACK AND THIS HORRIBLE TIME IS VERY MUCH IN THE PAST.
PLEASE UNDERSTAND WHY I CANNOT BE ON HERE ANYMORE.
I LOVE AND CHERISH ALL YOU HAVE DONE AND I PROMISE I WILL SAYONE PRAYER FOR YOU ALL EVERY NIGHT TO HELP YOU GET THROUGH THIS NIGHTMARE.
GOOD NIGHT AND GID BLESS YOU ALL AND MAY THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL SHINE BRIGHT.
LOVE AND HUGS. HOL

[Don'tbelieveit!]

Thanks Hol for your kind words. I don't even know you but have tears in my eyes. I sincerely wish you all the best for the future! Take care

[myhome]

Hi Hol - was wondering why you hadn't been here...you have given so much of yourself to other people on here and supported so many evevn when going through sh*te yourself.....
Really sorry to hear about your breakdown - but - having had one myself a few years ago - I know the only way is UPWARDS and ONWARDS -- but it's along slow old process. Hopefully you have your Community Mental health team on board and they will give you all the support and therapies you need.
Take care of yourself and it would be lovely - if you can - when you are well again and all is right in your world, you can let us know.....
Great BIG HUGS and
MH x

[Hol]

Thanks Hol for your kind words. I don't even know you but have tears in my eyes. I sincerely wish you all the best for the future! Take care

Thank you don'tbelieveit. But no tears! Just happy thoughts. Thinking of you all xx
HOL

[Hol]

Hi Hol - was wondering why you hadn't been here...you have given so much of yourself to other people on here and supported so many evevn when going through sh*te yourself.....
Really sorry to hear about your breakdown - but - having had one myself a few years ago - I know the only way is UPWARDS and ONWARDS -- but it's along slow old process. Hopefully you have your Community Mental health team on board and they will give you all the support and therapies you need.
Take care of yourself and it would be lovely - if you can - when you are well again and all is right in your world, you can let us know.....
Great BIG HUGS and
MH x

THANKYOU so much myhome. Your words are beautiful. Glad you got through your breakdown. I'll never forget you
HOL xx

[lonley place]

Hi Hol
Its good to see your thanks, but they were never needed, Its been a pleasure to know and "chat" with you !
I am pleased you have recovered and wish you love peace an happiness in the future.
Take Care all of you xx LP

[Hol]

Hi Hol
Its good to see your thanks, but they were never needed, Its been a pleasure to know and "chat" with you !
I am pleased you have recovered and wish you love peace an happiness in the future.
Take Care all of you xx LP

Thank you so much LP. You were there for me. The pleasure was all mine. Hope things go better and better for you in the future. You know what I mean. Good luck and god bless you and your family
Hol

[is there justice?]

Wishing you a wonderful future Hol - take care of you xx

[Hol]

Wishing you a wonderful future Hol - take care of you xx

Thank you. And all the very best to you too.

[browndown777]

Thank you everyone for you kind words and continued support

And a big thank you Hol for all the wise words and support that you have given me especially at the beginning when I really needed it most......

I really hope that the rest of your life is happy and prosperous, you may never forget what has happened to you but time is a good healer.

Take care of yourself and your family and GOOD LUCK

[Hol]

Thank you everyone for you kind words and continued support

And a big thank you Hol for all the wise words and support that you have given me especially at the beginning when I really needed it most......

I really hope that the rest of your life is happy and prosperous, you may never forget what has happened to you but time is a good healer.

Take care of yourself and your family and GOOD LUCK

Thank you so much BROWNDOWN. You don't know how much that means to me. I really wish you well and in a funny kind of way, I'll miss you and the gang. I think I need to just let go now and get a hold on my life with my family.
I truly wish you well.
Love HOL

[browndown777]

Solicitor told me yesterday that police have put my bail date back to end or September

Why???

another 4 months of hell to look foward to..........

[is there justice?]

so unfair to keep people in this hell's waiting room

[myhome]

that's grim - can your sol find out why or what you can expect in September? It's hard, but you now have 3 months where you know that nothing is going to happen so could you try to accept that for now - put it on the back burner for 3 months and try to enjoy the summer (if it ever arrives) whilst continuing to build your defence? We can't change the processes that plod's gong through - all we can do is ride it out and keep saying to ourselves - "She's not going to break me...."

- I'm 6 and 1/2 months in and only just beginning to look at things in that way - and I've not even been arrested!!

PM me if you would like to ....MH