Wife has falsely accused me of rape

[browndown777]

Today was a complete let down.....

Went to court this morning for the bail hearing, but nothing happened as they wouldn't hear the case for various reasons, so got to go back on Tuesday.

Also I had a contact with the children arranged for this afternoon but they didn’t turn up as my wife cancelled it! no one seems to know why, but I was sat in the centre waiting for half hour before being told they were not coming.

I was so looking forward to seeing them, now I have to wait till Tuesday…….

Im feeling so down at the moment

[Hol]

Today was a complete let down.....

Went to court this morning for the bail hearing, but nothing happened as they wouldn't hear the case for various reasons, so got to go back on Tuesday.

Also I had a contact with the children arranged for this afternoon but they didn’t turn up as my wife cancelled it! no one seems to know why, but I was sat in the centre waiting for half hour before being told they were not coming.

I was so looking forward to seeing them, now I have to wait till Tuesday…….

Im feeling so down at the moment

Oh browndown, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping for better news. Don't let it get the better of you. Hopefully this will be sorted next week. Can't imagine how you must be feeling, it's so sad.
I pray next week will be better news. Hold on in there browndown, I'm sure you'll come out on top Hun. Stay strong and get a good nights sleep, refresh in the morning and then once bank holiday is out the way, you'll be back there getting better news
I wish I could take your pain away.
Hol

[myhome]

Really really sorry to hear this browndown - sending......

[sparks]

So sorry to read about your day, I totally know how you are feeling, I hope you can raise your spirits for your own and your children, I found looking at pictures of my children and recalling the things that were happening on them days make me smile, really hope Tuesday comes so quick for you and all goes well.

[browndown777]

hol, myhome, sparks

THANKS......

Guess I was getting my hopes up a bit really, now I just have to decide if I go to court or to the contact meeting with the children as they are at the same time?

I have tried to rearrange the contact but they are fully booked up so there is no hope of changing days.

So I think as much as I want to get the court sorted I’m going to have to ask the solicitor if he can rearrange that......

[whatsgoingon?]

Sorry, you've had such a bad day... , there'll be better ones just around the corner. Glad to see you're taking it all on board despite the sadness and fraustration.

[Hol]

hol, myhome, sparks

THANKS......

Guess I was getting my hopes up a bit really, now I just have to decide if I go to court or to the contact meeting with the children as they are at the same time?

I have tried to rearrange the contact but they are fully booked up so there is no hope of changing days.

So I think as much as I want to get the court sorted I’m going to have to ask the solicitor if he can rearrange that......

What ever you decide, I'm sure it will all work out for you.
Good luck
Hol

[Boys don't cry]

Solicitor/barrister should be able to make representations to allow for this. Have you asked them about this?

I was in the same position last year when I had to go to Crown court for the false accusation and County court to try to have contact with my son.
I mentioned this to my Crown Court barrister and he told me that he could have change the trial date.

All the best Browdown .

[Unhappy]

Same thing happened to me

Hi browndown777

I have read your posts and you are going down exactly the same road as I travelled last year.

I was charged with 5 counts of raping my wife over last 20 years and found not guilty after a 11 day court trial.

The Police and CPS are to zealous to prosecute husbands for supposedly raping their wife's.

When the Police were original called to my house after a domestic dispute they straight away asked my wife if I had raped her during our marriage, which she answered yes.

My court case was a complete waste of tax payers money and everyone's time.

First my wife never once said the word rape in over a day and a half giving evidence either in her video statement or on the witness stand.

Then the CPS Barrister told the jury about minor incidents that happened during my marriage were actually rape.

There were no witnesses or medical evidence to back up anything what the CPS said.

The whole purpose of the court case is for the CPS Barrister to paint a bad as possible picture about the accused in the jury's mind to find him guilty.

It did not really seem to be to important if I was guilty or not it was down to which Barrister's story the jury believed.

I can see why so many innocent people are sent to prison as it is all down to the jury who think in strange ways and even my Barrister could not predict the outcome of my trial on the last day.

If the Police and CPS do send you to trail it will be all down to what your wife says in her video statement and on the witness stand.

If she actually says you raped her and started crying then that is not a good sign as the jury will believe the women's story 10 times more than the man's story of events.

What was the worst thing about my case was that I had a 4 year restraining order placed on me stopping me from going anywhere near my ex-wife and kids even though I was found not guilty.

This order was imposed by the court following my wife concerns that I might seek revenge for being falsely accused of raping her.

Regards

Unhappy

[Hol]

What ever you decide, I'm sure it will all work out for you.
Good luck
Hol

Hi and sparks, just thought I'd check in and see how you both are doing. I know it's Easter but it's just another day, I hope you are both keeping your chins up and keeping strong.
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you both.
And sending you my love.
Hol

[browndown777]

Hi and sparks, just thought I'd check in and see how you both are doing. I know it's Easter but it's just another day, I hope you are both keeping your chins up and keeping strong.
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you both.
And sending you my love.
Hol

Thanks Hol

I have been spending most of my time at work, so the days have been going really fast.

My solicitor is going to get my bail conditions hearing adjourned to the end of next week, so I will be able to go to the contact tomorrow and Wednesday which I’m so looking forward to

Apart from that just surviving each day......

[Hol]

Thanks Hol

I have been spending most of my time at work, so the days have been going really fast.

My solicitor is going to get my bail conditions hearing adjourned to the end of next week, so I will be able to go to the contact tomorrow and Wednesday which I’m so looking forward to

Apart from that just surviving each day......

That's great browndown sorry I missed your name on the last post, but I see you got what I meant.
Hope you have a great time with you son, and great to hear your okay.
Speak soon
Hol.

[browndown777]

I haven’t posted for a few weeks so just though I would give a bit of an update to all the kind people who have given me so much wonderful advice and support at such a low point in my life........

I’m still spending most of my time at work (about 12 to 14 hours a day 7 days a week) the days seem to just fly by! But best of all it takes my mind off things

However having said that the last few days have been a bit of a roller-coaster of emotions, Friday and Saturday being particularly bad days when something happened that brought back the reality of the situation that I find myself in and how much my life has changed.

But on a more positive note, I’m now seeing my children regularly, only for a couple of hours a week but even so that gives me something to look forward to......in fact that is the only thing in my life now that I do have to look forward to and it’s what keeps me from jumping off the nearest bridge!

Still no news good or bad on my case so its still a waiting game......

[is there justice?]

I haven’t posted for a few weeks so just though I would give a bit of an update to all the kind people who have given me so much wonderful advice and support at such a low point in my life........


But on a more positive note, I’m now seeing my children regularly, only for a couple of hours a week but even so that gives me something to look forward to......in fact that is the only thing in my life now that I do have to look forward to and it’s what keeps me from jumping off the nearest bridge!

Still no news good or bad on my case so its still a waiting game......

It's so good that you and your children are enjoying regular contact

I hope it's soon dealt with, the waiting is unbearable and cruel

[myhome]

Hi - great news you can see your children again - something very valuable and wonderful for you to look forward to. The waiting and wondering is indeed awful....keep strong... MH