Wife has falsely accused me of rape

[Don'tbelieveit!]

Browndown

My husband's reply:
Try it in the hope that you will be able to think about something else at least for a part of the time, even if only for a few minutes. He found it diffcult the first few days. I admit, our situation IS different, but then no case is the same. However, he says that sitting at home drives him crazy and working does give him the chance to be preoccupied with something else..

Hope that helps!

[browndown777]

I'm so glad I found this Forum.

Its giving me the courage to carry on, I never thought that I would find myself in such a dark place.

But with the help of you nice people I may just get through this......

[Don'tbelieveit!]

You will get through it, just like we all will! We have all gone through hell and back and still are doing do but do not give up for the sake of your children!

[Hol]

Thanks for your kind words Hol......

The next schedualed contact is NEXT monday! but they did say they would try and sort something for later this week but i won't hold my breath.

Does the woman i loved with all my life know what she has done to me?

Does she know what she is putting me through??

I hope she's reading this and has the decensy to tell the truth that I didnt Rape her and that I didnt abuse her, the only thing i'm guilty of is bending over backwards to help her through all her problems over the last 20 years, I was a good father and i tried to be a good husband........

HERE! HERE!
That's just what you are and don't ever forget it! That's the strength we need to here from you. You will have anger days as well as down days, but keep that strength there. I loved my niece like my own daughter, it broke my heart, so I understand what your going through. It's only the people you love that can hurt you!
Your doing really well brown down, keep it up. I'm here with you all the way.
Hol

[browndown777]

just a bit of an update.......

Had a childrens contact meeting on Thursday, but only my daughter turned up! was told my little boy got upset and wouldn't get in the taxi.

Still I was pleased to see her for a couple of hours and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be with someone else sat in the room listening to every word said and taking notes.

In all fairness the lady was really nice and my daughter was really relaxed about it, and just seemed like her old self!

I have another contact on Monday and I just pray that my son turns up too, i miss him so much

its going to be a long weekend........

[lonley place]

Hi, Good to hear you had a wonderful time with your daughter but sorry your son was upset and didn't come along. He must be so confused about the whole situation ...hopefully he will have been told by your daughter all about your visit and will come along on monday. LP

[browndown777]

Thanks Lonley place

Yes it must be quiet upsetting for him as he's only 9 and probably dosen's know what the hecks going on. I dont know what they have told him.......

I kissed him goodnight and told him I would see him in the morning and that was over two weeks ago!!!

And yes i'm having a bad weekend......

[lonley place]

Aww heres another Its an awful situation to have to cope with, Keep strong for your kids they need you more than you think ! Our accuser was our daughter, I prefer not to say too much at the moment because I have had some contact with our grand daughter after 6 months of none, but I have reassured myself that she was told nothing of what was really happening and thinks there was a big family argument, Your son will probably be the same...not knowing whats happened ! Just be patient a little longer while he sorts his head out LP

[Hol]

Aww heres another Its an awful situation to have to cope with, Keep strong for your kids they need you more than you think ! Our accuser was our daughter, I prefer not to say too much at the moment because I have had some contact with our grand daughter after 6 months of none, but I have reassured myself that she was told nothing of what was really happening and thinks there was a big family argument, Your son will probably be the same...not knowing whats happened ! Just be patient a little longer while he sorts his head out LP

Hi browndown
Just thought I'd let you know that I'm thinking of you and it's Sunday now, the weekends nearly over and Monday will soon be here. I hope your little boy shows and you can give him a BIG hug (don't be too upset if he doesn't, the day will come, he needs to be ready.) I hope your arms are wide enough to give them both a hug at once! I'm sending you some angels to guide you all together. Sweet dreams tonight and god bless for Monday.
Hol

[browndown777]

A BIG thank you to everyone for their kind words and support.......

I can't wait for tomorrow afternoon, i'm so looking foward to seeing him!

I have also decided to start back to work on Tuesday as I really need something to take my mind off things.

[whatsgoingon?]

Hi browndown - my apologees for coming onto your thread so late even if I have been reading your posts.
I sympathise with the awful position that you find yourself in and really hope tomorrow is a lovely day for you. I'm sure your lad will come round, but as has already been said , don't take it to heart if he doesn't make it just yet.
What these alligators and SS don't take into account is the suffering they put children through.
Back to work sounds good and positive and will occupy your mind.
All the very,very,(X100) best for tomorrow

[browndown777]

Thanks whatsgoingon

I really appreciate yours and everyone else’s support.....

[Hol]

A BIG thank you to everyone for their kind words and support.......

I can't wait for tomorrow afternoon, i'm so looking foward to seeing him!

I have also decided to start back to work on Tuesday as I really need something to take my mind off things.

Well done you! I'm so glad your going back to work. Keep yourself busy browndown and once again good luck for tomorrow
Hol

[browndown777]

Thanks Hol

I just think it's now time to go back to work, because if i don't do it now I might never do it!

[Hol]

Thanks Hol

I just think it's now time to go back to work, because if i don't do it now I might never do it!

This is true browndown. It will keep you busy and once this is all over with, you'll still have a job to go to. Keep up that spirit Hun, your doing great! Best of luck.
Hol