First day at court

[Hol]

Hi everyone,
What a day and so many cock ups. The niece acusing my husband has added two more counts to her claim, it's took her four years to decide that she remembers two more times. Yet it's been acceptable to do that?
Then there was loads of disputes about whether to use the written statement because there was so much abusive language on the video. (shows what type of person were healing with).
We were there at 9.30 this morning and didn't get started until 3.30pm the jury was sworn in and then one of the woman said to the judge, ("will I be alright on the jury, cos I've been in a similar situation"), nothing was said so now he could have a woman that's against him from the start.
Can that happen?
Then that was it end of the day, nothing done. We saw the niece outside, she was with her husband and a friend. They had jeans on, a t shirt hoody jacket and trainers. Very smart for court!
Half the stuff we handed in to the solicitor and his then secretary, (who is no longer with them.) and the barrister hasn't got anything we handed in. So now I need to prepare a short version of the info again. This is not on but it's too late to complain.
Gonna have some tea now and de stress.
Will be more to fill you in with tomorrow
Till then thanks all
Hol

[myhome]

Sounds awful - it's a bad enough situation as it is without losing faith in your team - sending

[lonley place]

Hi Hol. Keep strong !! the lady on the jury who said she had been in a similar situation could
work to your advantage as she has an insight of the offence and may just see through your FA'ers lies. I will be around all week if you need emotional support so feel free to pm me if you need. LP

[Hol]

Thanks

Sounds awful - it's a bad enough situation as it is without losing faith in your team - sending

Hi there, how are you? Thank you for your concern. Will see what happens tomorrow
Hol

[Hol]

Thanks

Hi Hol. Keep strong !! the lady on the jury who said she had been in a similar situation could
work to your advantage as she has an insight of the offence and may just see through your FA'ers lies. I will be around all week if you need emotional support so feel free to pm me if you need. LP

Ah thanks, you don't know what that means.
Today I suppose was the easy bit. Thing get going tomorrow so hopefully we can see how things are developing. Found out that it may run into next week now, with the delays
But thanks again
Hol

[breakmyheart]

how stressfull

Hi everyone,
What a day and so many cock ups. The niece acusing my husband has added two more counts to her claim, it's took her four years to decide that she remembers two more times. Yet it's been acceptable to do that?
Then there was loads of disputes about whether to use the written statement because there was so much abusive language on the video. (shows what type of person were healing with).
We were there at 9.30 this morning and didn't get started until 3.30pm the jury was sworn in and then one of the woman said to the judge, ("will I be alright on the jury, cos I've been in a similar situation"), nothing was said so now he could have a woman that's against him from the start.
Can that happen?
Then that was it end of the day, nothing done. We saw the niece outside, she was with her husband and a friend. They had jeans on, a t shirt hoody jacket and trainers. Very smart for court!
Half the stuff we handed in to the solicitor and his then secretary, (who is no longer with them.) and the barrister hasn't got anything we handed in. So now I need to prepare a short version of the info again. This is not on but it's too late to complain.
Gonna have some tea now and de stress.
Will be more to fill you in with tomorrow
Till then thanks all
Hol

Hi hol,

I think your a great spirit and you have my every best wishes that the trial will be to hubbies freedom and you can re-unite.

I include so many people in my prayers each night and hope the pain goes away and let us all be in peace.God bless

[wonderwoman2012]

I think someone that has been though a trail would be good on the jury. I know my own past helps me to really see the women that jump on the band wagon. She may be the accusers down fall.

I hope your legal team get their act together. Fingers crossed for second day.

[Hol]

Hi hol,

I think your a great spirit and you have my every best wishes that the trial will be to hubbies freedom and you can re-unite.

I include so many people in my prayers each night and hope the pain goes away and let us all be in peace.God bless

I forgot to say, thank you for your support. We will all try to keep you strong.
Hang in there.
I'm just settin off now for what we hope is the first day without cockups
Will be back tonight.
Head up high,
Hol

[whatsgoingon?]

Good luck for today Hol (and Mr Hol). Will it be your turn today? How are you getting on with the hanging around? I found the court staff to be really friendly and helpful, hope yours is the same.

Keep you faith and courage up.
All the best

[whatsgoingon?]

Quote:Then there was loads of disputes about whether to use the written statement because there was so much abusive language on the video. (shows what type of person were healing with): unquote

I'm not sure your barrister has to accept this, I think he/she can insist the video is shown.
It would be better all round (including for the sake of fairness) to make sure her video evidence is used. If she swore on it, that's her problem.

Keep your spirits up

[myhome]

Hi there, how are you? Thank you for your concern. Will see what happens tomorrow
Hol

Hi Hol - thanks for your message - I'm up and down like everyone else!! Hope to-day went well for you......finger poised over the banana icon x

[Hol]

Hi

Quote:Then there was loads of disputes about whether to use the written statement because there was so much abusive language on the video. (shows what type of person were healing with): unquote

I'm not sure your barrister has to accept this, I think he/she can insist the video is shown.
It would be better all round (including for the sake of fairness) to make sure her video evidence is used. If she swore on it, that's her problem.

Keep your spirits up

Hiya whatsgoingon.
Just got in and I'm going to relax in the bath.
They've been laughing and the video, yes, they played the video of the first niece. Taking it one at a time.
She was putting her feet up on the table and slouching and looked like she was watching tv.
I didn't see any of this cos I was in the foyer with my daughter, were witnesses good balance today
Thanks for your support
Hol

[lonley place]

Hi Hol....Its good to hear from you and to see you keeping strong.
Heres my for today. LP

[Hol]

Hey!

Thank you.
I hope I'm not smiling too soon. But it was rubbish. She couldn't answer a single question right.
She kept changing her mind and lies are starting. Looks like it's going into next week though
Thanks again
Hol

[Hol]

So far so good

Well today it all started at 10.30am. My husband was straight in and the rest followed.
They watched the video which was good. And then cam out for a break. Then went back in till dinner
Back in again after lunch and that was it till 4.30
Our barrister pulled some good questions out and left her shaking till tomorrow.
I'm shattered now will speak tomorrow
Hol