ella's thread: Husband falsely accused of rape

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I accidentally pressed the wrong button and deleted ella's entire thread. I am so sorry ella. I've copied all the messages I could find (minus the one I was trying to delete...). I don't know if that was all of them. I hope it was.

ella:
My husband was falsely accused of rape by a girl who had a one night sex is job was taxi driver and a customer invited him to her house to drink after making sex in car.next day went the police to complain that it was rape. sex of by common accord consuming. saying he was drunk and took advantage of it ...... juri found guilty even demonstrating his lawyer that he was not so drunk they do not know. demonstrating that witnesses lied during the trial ......... I do not know what to make them him out of there .. can someone help me I really do not know where to turn thanks apologize for the mistakes above, my English is not too good I translated with google

bookworm
my heart goes out to you , if your husband has been found guily by a jury then i dont think there is very much you can do legally , his solicitor maybe can appeal , someone else on here will be able to advise you about that better than i can . from the sound of it this will be a long and difficult time for you both , do you have support to help you through this ? family or friends ? you need support and help to get through each day. stay strong and keep your faith x

ella
.thanks for the reply, unfortunately only mi here with two small children 11 months and one for four years, it does not know what to do and who to call ........

Casehardened
Hello Ella and welcome to the forum,

I've moved your posts into their own thread as more members may then see them and be able to offer you advice.

IvorBinWronged
Sorry for your situation.

Time will be slow for you.

Get the money help that is available in your situation. Citizen's Advice Bureau can help a lot.

Go to English classes. This will help your children too.

Focus on you and your children. The prison will look after your husband.

Good luck.

felix
Ella, you might find an evangelical (modern, informal, friendlyand "stuck in") church which has a ministry supporting people like you. If you PM me with a town or city I can Google and find a number for you to ring.

ella
thanks a lot, I live in Romford Essex

ella
(In response to IvorBinWronged)
Thanks for the advice. Citizen's Advice Bureau think you CAN help me?

[ella]

Husband falsely accused of rape

Hello again, I just talked to a lawyer who advised me that the best defense for my husband to find as many informed natty this girl, if he did so, the character's etc etc. But how could I do that? Informed where to get it? Whom to ask? Private Detective ..... have no money ...... what can I do?

[bookworm123]

there are posts somewhere on here that give details of solicitors who specialise in false accusations . i think the others were right to advise you to sort yourself out first , you must look after yourself and your children and claim any benefits you are entitled to including housing benefit . im so sorry you have noone there to help you, talking with someone would really help you through this , and day to day this will be difficult for you. stay with this site and you will at least have somewhere to vent your feelings and get good advice and sympathy. also look on google and see if there is a womens aid centre near to you as they can help x

[ella]

Does anyone know how good barista is Delroy Henry?

[RFLH]

by googling I've found a few cases that have been reported - but no sexual ones - but he is listed under them at his Chambers.

http://www.citadelchambers.com/pract...exual-offences

[ella]

can someone tell me how this is possible without any complaint filed with the police to be condemned. going to write a paragraph in the prosecution material .... Miss X has not made any complaints / allegations against anyone to the police / social services. she is not known to social services ....can someone tell me how it is possible

[whatsgoingon?]

Hi Ella, I'm not sure how this can happen , but I assure you it does. My son found himeslf in court even though there had been no claims made against him. It's unbelievable but true.
The barrister you mention seems to be based in Birmingham. Have you been in touch with him or a solicitor who works with him? Would he be willing to travel to defend your husband?
If not, I know you have been recommended an excellent team in London on the Specialist Solicitor's thread.

Have you managed to get to Social Services to get some practical help for you and your children?

Keep strong.

[ella]

hi whatsgoingon? unfortunately with social service all tell me that if I do not work can not get help and now i have to leave the house in 2 weeks because I have not paid rent .Delroy Henry was his lawyer at trial, and unfortunately I have no money for another lawyer,I tried to get another lawyer but asked me £ 600 just to read the file.unfortunately I don't know who can help me

[myhome]

Hi ella - are you able to apply for legal aid? Also it may be worth making an appointment to see Citizens' Advice Bureau - they have a wealth of information on so many things.....I'm sure someone else will be on here shortly with some advice for you - keep strong

[whatsgoingon?]

hi whatsgoingon? unfortunately with social service all tell me that if I do not work can not get help and now i have to leave the house in 2 weeks because I have not paid rent .Delroy Henry was his lawyer at trial, and unfortunately I have no money for another lawyer,I tried to get another lawyer but asked me £ 600 just to read the file.unfortunately I don't know who can help me

Hi Ella, your housing and financial situation (especially as you have small children) seems to be the most urgent of 2 horrendous problems. As Myhome has said, make an appointment to see someone from Citizen's Advice Bureau, they should be able to help you with both problems.
Keep strong.