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  • #16
    Just realised that all I've talked about is myself. Can I just say how proud I am of my partner, he has been amazing throughout this whole thing. I can only commend his courage and spirit and positivity, despite the fact that this is him going through this. Don't get me wrong, he has his down days and he gets fed up of trying to find things to do all day. But he never loses faith that he won't be charged or that he won't get his job back.
    Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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    • #17
      Originally posted by Believe View Post
      I'm sorry to hear about your breakdown, but I bet you are a stronger person for it?
      Yes - I'm a stronger person and a different one, and going though this is bringing on change in me too. My best friend who helped me so much in 2007 and still does used to tell me, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." I never believed her at the time and told her she was talking ubbish. But she wasn't - and she never does - she's a very wise person and she was right....keep strong
      "Only love can light the mirror of your soul" - Chris de Burgh

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Believe View Post
        Do you think the fact that the OIC actually contacted the solicitor to inform them of the status if the case is a good thing? My thinking is that if they thought he the person who she claims him to be then they wouldn't be that polite!
        The police are supposed to be impartial in their investigations but they can and undoubtedly do have opinions, I guess that a good cop can suss out a false allegation from the onset, but in the present climate they have to go through the motions (Did you read the Inspector Gadget blog on this subject when it was linked to on the forum; it is an eye-opener)

        I have personal experience of an OIC indicating (indirectly of course!) that they thought the allegation was false, so yes, there are signs to be read.
        'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'

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        • #19
          Originally posted by myhome View Post
          Yes - I'm a stronger person and a different one, and going though this is bringing on change in me too. My best friend who helped me so much in 2007 and still does used to tell me, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." I never believed her at the time and told her she was talking ubbish. But she wasn't - and she never does - she's a very wise person and she was right....keep strong
          Thank you my home, I'm trying xx
          Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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          • #20
            Originally posted by Casehardened View Post
            The police are supposed to be impartial in their investigations but they can and undoubtedly do have opinions, I guess that a good cop can suss out a false allegation from the onset, but in the present climate they have to go through the motions (Did you read the Inspector Gadget blog on this subject when it was linked to on the forum; it is an eye-opener)

            I have personal experience of an OIC indicating (indirectly of course!) that they thought the allegation was false, so yes, there are signs to be read.
            Still never ever trust them!!!!!

            I said you do, do the right thing don't you?

            They would of had an innocent man go to jail and pushed really hard for it, even though common sense would tell you I was innocent!

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            • #21
              Originally posted by Casehardened View Post
              I have personal experience of an OIC indicating (indirectly of course!) that they thought the allegation was false, so yes, there are signs to be read.
              All the way through there had been 'signs' that they don't believe it happened. Apart from at the
              beginning when he was treated like a criminal,
              the police have actually been pretty decent to
              him even telling him to ' takecare' after one conversation. He was informed by the OIC boss personally when the file was submitted to the CPS, he even indicated that he didn't think the next bail would be extended - it was of course -twice!

              A lack of intrusion is surely a good sign too? If seriously did think that he committed this crime would they have not been on his back a bit more? He has never even had to answer bail...

              Even when this is the case, do the police still have to submit the file top the cps?
              Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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              • #22
                My partner has had a call from the solicitor to say that he has to attend xxxxx police station tomorrow evening. He's never had to answer bail before. The solicitor does not know what is going to happen. We just don't know what to think!
                Last edited by Casehardened; 29 January 2013, 11:09 PM. Reason: to remove identifying place name
                Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by brokenman81 View Post
                  Still never ever trust them!!!!!

                  I said you do, do the right thing don't you?

                  They would of had an innocent man go to jail and pushed really hard for it, even though common sense would tell you I was innocent!
                  You know the score you've been here before.
                  Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                  • #24
                    I've taken the liberty of editing out the name of the police station to make the post more anonymous.

                    It's odd that the OIC wouldn't indicate to his solicitor what the purpose of the visit is; if it was for the purposes of a re-interview or, heaven forbid, a charge, he would be entitled to have a solicitor present and therefore the OIC would have told him.

                    Maybe the OIC just wants to inform him about something pertaining to the case on an informal basis
                    'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'

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                    • #25
                      Thanks case hardened. I hadn't realized I had done that! He will have a solicitor present...
                      Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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                      • #26
                        Wouldn't they usually tell the solicitor if they had reached a charging decision as soon they had made it, even prior to the bail date? It seems odd that they would bring him in in the evening to requestion, but i guess that would be down to the shift of the OIC? I'm really scared now...
                        Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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                        • #27
                          Hi believe - thinking of you to-day and hope everything is ok this evening. Keep us posted and here's these to keep you going
                          "Only love can light the mirror of your soul" - Chris de Burgh

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                          • #28
                            Thank you my home xxx
                            Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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                            • #29
                              We've just been told he's going to be charged tonight. We don't know what with...
                              Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace.

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                              • #30
                                Oh no!!!! Oh I'm so so sorry..... keep strong - remember things can still be stopped before it gets to a trial....thinking of you....
                                "Only love can light the mirror of your soul" - Chris de Burgh

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