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I would like to explain a situation in hopes I receive feedback, to either ease my worries, or to help prepare for what I may expect in the coming future.
On December 31, 2013, I ended up having sex with a co-worker of mine. It all started when I was complaining that my back was hurting, and the girl requesting that I allow her to massage my back. I was a little hesitant at first, just because I didn't want her to feel weird, but then she insisted that she was fine with it. I agreed to it. About 30 minutes later, she couldn't massage any longer as her hands were tired. She then asked that I massage her shoulders. She took off a sweatshirt to reveal a spaghetti string top. She sat on the floor in front of me as I sat on the couch. During the massage, I noticed that she was extremely into it. She even pulled the spaghetti straps down so I didn't keep running my hands under them. Everything was fine until she reached up, grabbed me by my forearms and pulled my hands down to her chest.
All of this lead to a lot of kissing and touching. She was very into it, grabbing my private area and such. I kept going along with it, enjoying the process. After about 30 minutes of making out (touching and oral, etc.), I slowly took her pants off. She arched her back so I could pull them down and then took the last pant leg off herself. At this point, she reached up and took my belt off, unbuttoned my pants, and allowed me to kiss parts of her body. Once I thought it was time for penetration, I simply asked her if it's what she wanted. She said "yes"!
Once the act was complete, she wanted to cuddle. We sat on the couch for nearly a hour when she started kissing me again. She than unbuckled my pants and proceeded to give me oral sex. After that, we had sex again and then she left.
Two days later, I had a chance to talk to her. I wasn't really all that into her and she gave me the feeling she wanted more than a casual sexual experience. I told her that I couldn't continue seeing her but would like to remain friends. On Friday, January 11, 2013, someone knocks on my door. I answer to find a detective asking questions of an alleged rape. Supposedly, the girl I had sex with checked herself into a mental facility the night after I told her it wasn't going to happen again.
In between the time between the act and when I told her I couldn't continue seeing her, she told three people I know that there was a guy she was seeing, etc. She explained me as a different person since we both know these individuals. It was clear to them that the act was consensual. They now know the person she was explaining was me. I'm really hoping the police talk to these people.
With all of this information I gave, what do you think will come of it? I have a meeting with the detective at the police department on Tuesday. Should I ask for a polygraph? I am an innocent man! It was clear to me that she wanted the sexual act to happen.
Thank you!
I would like to explain a situation in hopes I receive feedback, to either ease my worries, or to help prepare for what I may expect in the coming future.
On December 31, 2013, I ended up having sex with a co-worker of mine. It all started when I was complaining that my back was hurting, and the girl requesting that I allow her to massage my back. I was a little hesitant at first, just because I didn't want her to feel weird, but then she insisted that she was fine with it. I agreed to it. About 30 minutes later, she couldn't massage any longer as her hands were tired. She then asked that I massage her shoulders. She took off a sweatshirt to reveal a spaghetti string top. She sat on the floor in front of me as I sat on the couch. During the massage, I noticed that she was extremely into it. She even pulled the spaghetti straps down so I didn't keep running my hands under them. Everything was fine until she reached up, grabbed me by my forearms and pulled my hands down to her chest.
All of this lead to a lot of kissing and touching. She was very into it, grabbing my private area and such. I kept going along with it, enjoying the process. After about 30 minutes of making out (touching and oral, etc.), I slowly took her pants off. She arched her back so I could pull them down and then took the last pant leg off herself. At this point, she reached up and took my belt off, unbuttoned my pants, and allowed me to kiss parts of her body. Once I thought it was time for penetration, I simply asked her if it's what she wanted. She said "yes"!
Once the act was complete, she wanted to cuddle. We sat on the couch for nearly a hour when she started kissing me again. She than unbuckled my pants and proceeded to give me oral sex. After that, we had sex again and then she left.
Two days later, I had a chance to talk to her. I wasn't really all that into her and she gave me the feeling she wanted more than a casual sexual experience. I told her that I couldn't continue seeing her but would like to remain friends. On Friday, January 11, 2013, someone knocks on my door. I answer to find a detective asking questions of an alleged rape. Supposedly, the girl I had sex with checked herself into a mental facility the night after I told her it wasn't going to happen again.
In between the time between the act and when I told her I couldn't continue seeing her, she told three people I know that there was a guy she was seeing, etc. She explained me as a different person since we both know these individuals. It was clear to them that the act was consensual. They now know the person she was explaining was me. I'm really hoping the police talk to these people.
With all of this information I gave, what do you think will come of it? I have a meeting with the detective at the police department on Tuesday. Should I ask for a polygraph? I am an innocent man! It was clear to me that she wanted the sexual act to happen.
Thank you!
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