The ugly issue began in 2009 the moment we moved to United Kingdom from Nigeria, She wanted to make me a slave because I came in as her dependant , I work and pay all the bills while she kept saving her's. To cut the long story short.
We separated in 2009 because I lost my job, but later she kept pleading that I should forgiven her, her family went begging my family back in Nigeria because at a point I stop seeing my children. Last year Christmas, she and the children requested I should come and because that children want me badly that they want me back home. I was with them from the 24th - 26th of December, We both did everything that husband and wife do over the three days.
Then all of a sudden, she sent me an email in April accusing of raping her when I was with her in December, I thought it was a joke because she had in the past said all sort of things about me to both families. Before we parted we were even discussing about her having our third child in America and taken the other two to disney world.
23th of June 2012, I went for my little girl birthday and I was told she had left that house, she later called to inform me that she is sorry, that she took the children for summing, the on 20th of August, I went visiting as requested by her and the kiddies and more so to help the kiddies assemble the bicycle that I bought for them each for the summer. I got to the house, my little girl open up the door and the brother follows, I carried him and to my greatest surprise my brother in-law came out and instructed that I should drop my child and he started fighting me that he got me injured.
Then on the 22nd, I had to see my GP and he instructed I have to report to the police, then on the 26th of August, I saw the police in my house stating that am under arrest for rape by who the said by my wife that she said I raped her in December. I was arrested for the very first time in my life, detained and went through the ugly process of the police for what I did not do. But later released to answer bail for the first time last October without charge but later asked to return next Wednesday 5th of December 2012 to find out if the case will be charged or dropped.
Meeting my solicitor last week he said the case will be dropped because it has no basis because in her statement she stated that we both agreed to have sex that night, despite getting me drunk before she started assaulting that night, before then I have her series of text messages pleading that she wants to have sex that she is wet and all sort of things that could go on between married couples.
I need advise because her brother's case had been dropped. Her family are begging now that I should forgive her which am not ready to do, more so, I am planning of reporting her to the police as well on how she abuses children which I witnessed while we were together. although she is with the children but I dn't want to have anything to do with her and the children ever again.
I need some advise.
We separated in 2009 because I lost my job, but later she kept pleading that I should forgiven her, her family went begging my family back in Nigeria because at a point I stop seeing my children. Last year Christmas, she and the children requested I should come and because that children want me badly that they want me back home. I was with them from the 24th - 26th of December, We both did everything that husband and wife do over the three days.
Then all of a sudden, she sent me an email in April accusing of raping her when I was with her in December, I thought it was a joke because she had in the past said all sort of things about me to both families. Before we parted we were even discussing about her having our third child in America and taken the other two to disney world.
23th of June 2012, I went for my little girl birthday and I was told she had left that house, she later called to inform me that she is sorry, that she took the children for summing, the on 20th of August, I went visiting as requested by her and the kiddies and more so to help the kiddies assemble the bicycle that I bought for them each for the summer. I got to the house, my little girl open up the door and the brother follows, I carried him and to my greatest surprise my brother in-law came out and instructed that I should drop my child and he started fighting me that he got me injured.
Then on the 22nd, I had to see my GP and he instructed I have to report to the police, then on the 26th of August, I saw the police in my house stating that am under arrest for rape by who the said by my wife that she said I raped her in December. I was arrested for the very first time in my life, detained and went through the ugly process of the police for what I did not do. But later released to answer bail for the first time last October without charge but later asked to return next Wednesday 5th of December 2012 to find out if the case will be charged or dropped.
Meeting my solicitor last week he said the case will be dropped because it has no basis because in her statement she stated that we both agreed to have sex that night, despite getting me drunk before she started assaulting that night, before then I have her series of text messages pleading that she wants to have sex that she is wet and all sort of things that could go on between married couples.
I need advise because her brother's case had been dropped. Her family are begging now that I should forgive her which am not ready to do, more so, I am planning of reporting her to the police as well on how she abuses children which I witnessed while we were together. although she is with the children but I dn't want to have anything to do with her and the children ever again.
I need some advise.
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