Hi everyone,

[sparks]

Hi Ivorbeenwronged,

Thanx for your support, but I think your reply might have been for yorkster maybe.

[myhome]

Hi My home, Thanx for your comments, I am holding it togather but just.

Phew - that's a relief - it is so hard but we're all here for you and for each other......keep strong and keep talking to us.....

[Yorkster]

Need help to find a solicitor

Been talking to sparks today on the phone . He's having problems finding a sol in the Darlington area . If anyone knows a good sol up there can they post their details up please . He can't post himself having not got any Internet . Thanks in advance peeps

[sparks]

update, I have been to the Police station to be fingerprinted, photographed, and a DNA sample taken and I will recieve a summons by post, the alligations are 1, attempted rape and 4 of indecency, oh and my new Sol who was too attend the Police station failed to turn up.

[sparks]

can I just add, I have spoken to yorkster on the phone what a great feeling to be able to talk with some one who understands and does not judge you.

[IvorBinWronged]

yes I think you are right!

Hi Ivorbeenwronged,

Thanx for your support, but I think your reply might have been for yorkster maybe.

Ooops!

But good luck to you too Sparks. Reading your story was hard especially with the intrusion of your family's harmony and all. The SS have got some awful powers - what if they have awful people too!

[Boys don't cry]

Hi Sparks.

You may try to contact your new solicitor in order to know why he was absent from your visit to the police station.
Just make sure you find one you can trust who specialise in these kind of offences.

I suppose he will answer that the police only wanted to take your DNA,swabs...and he didn't have to be present as these are only legal procedures from the police to investigate a criminal case.

Did you manage to get an internet connection?
When I was FAd I managed to get a dongle from O2,it was really basic but it helped me to communicate with members from this forum.
Take care and keep faith.

[sparks]

Mobile internet is all I have but better then nothing I guess,
Not seeing or holding my wife and children is so hard,
Every hour is an eternity without them, and the thought of being with them again is all that keeps me going,

[sparks]

I seen my wife and children on Skype for the first time since I moved out and I am not ashamed to say I cried
My little girl is walking now,and my son read me stories.
God I miss them so much.

[Faith]

SOlicitor close to Darlington...Gill Rutherford from Durham. She deals very well with cases like this

[myhome]

I seen my wife and children on Skype for the first time since I moved out and I am not ashamed to say I cried
My little girl is walking now,and my son read me stories.
God I miss them so much.

That must have been bitter-sweet for you all - how lovely to see and talk to them even if only through the ether....and how heart breaking not to be able to touch and hold them and for them to hold you.......one day the Angels will help you to find justice and be reunited with your family totouch and hold them all again.....

[sparks]

Hello everyone,

Been reading but just stayed in the back ground, I got a bedsit, and a little thinking space,
Ashamed to say I have fallen on the dependency of medication and alcohol, I made a claim for JSA but don't think I can for fill the requirements, I feel I am lost in an abyss,I cannot believe that the lies of a person can have such a detrimental effect on another, Thanx for all the support.

[whatsgoingon?]

Hi Sparks - Urg.... get out of that abyss quick! Your wife and children need you well and proactive even if you can't be with them at the moment. They'll be so happy to be re-united with you. They need you to fight this. You need to fight this.
Please don't give up... there are people who can help you , we can support you but no-one can do the fighting for you.

Forget it's a unscrupulous, deceiptful woman... see it as a massive infection or a road accident .

Keep posting too, you know there are people who support you and will help you through this.

[RFLH]

apply anyway - c'mon - get fighting - don't let the lies win - you can do this.

You are not a quitter.

[Boys don't cry]

Wake up Sparks.

As you say in UK:I've been there,I got the T-shirt.

Don't hesitate to Pm me,we'll have a chat.

Take care of yourself