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    I have been with my wife for 16yrs and we have been married 7yrs,we have 3 children a girl of ten and 2 boys 9 and 6.During our marriage we have have had several swinging evenings where we would have men join us at home also she would go out to find men and also tried dogging.On april 24th (daughters 10th bday) i came home to find she had laeft with the children and move to another town 80 miles away,over the next few weeks i was able to see the children and talk to them when she would alow me until 1 weekend where i decided to keep them and apply for residence order because the children kept complaining to me about her boyfriend and his father who would drag them around and call them nasty names.she came to the house and was arrested for a public order offence but relesed to go straight home. The next day i was granted the order and 3 days later she had me i court and got the children back because she told the court they had school but it was jubilee week and the school was closed.

    On 11th june i had another court hearing and at the begining of the hearing my barrister informed me that in the days after my wife was arrested she reported me to the police for rape and having men to the house to rape her whilst she was under the influence of her medication,after the hearing i offered myself to the police for questioning but they had nothing on their datbase about me then aroung 27th june i again offered myself and still nothing,then on friday 13th july a went back to the police and they arrested me for rape and encitement to rape,i was questioned and relesed on bail without charge to reappear on the 22nd october.

    One of my friends were also arrested for rape and bailed the same as me, she has neve even met my friend.our answers to the questions they asked about our friendship and now long we have been friends were the same as we have no reason to lie.She even walked past my friend in the county court house the previous day and didnt even batter an eyelid at him.

    The police serched our houses and took computers,phones,all my family court papers and evidence, bed sheets rugs and photos we had taken of each other. some of the photos were of my wife she had taken herself after a bad epilectic fit where she had cut her face and was covered in blood and so was the bedside table where she had hit her face also some where she had cut her finger with a knife after a fit,these are some of my evidence for the family court to try and show them what the children had to try and deal with regulaly.they have also been to social services to get the copy of the disc that i sent them with these pictures on.

    All the alegations of rape she has claimed to have been when we had met with these men and she has told them she was always unable to fight them off because her medication would make her weak and unable to move.

    She wont let me have contact with the children even with a court order in place allowing me to have contact and the court knew of these allegations when the order was granted,the police also told me they have no concerns with me being around children.

    We dont know what to do now
    Last edited by slimboyfat; 17 July 2012, 05:50 PM.

  • #2
    Hello and sorry to meet you here Slimboyfat.

    Did you have a solicitor when you have been interviewed by the police?
    If not make sure to have a specialised one in false rape allegationthe next time and during your case.
    Don't worry about your friend at the moment but you must find the reason why your wife is accusing you.
    Try to collect material evidence and note everything you think about towards this accusation.
    Do you still live in your house,if yes,it might be easier to find these evidences.
    Do not contact the police anymore by yourself,only via a solicitor.
    Non,je ne regrette rien.

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    • #3
      I only had the duty solicitor but im am looking for a specialist,im still in the house and she is only doinh this to stop me seeing the children,On the 12th of june i asker her why she said these thing about me and she told me i shouldnt havd told social services she was a bad mum,she has also told our 10yr old she had to lie about daddy to get the children back.
      Im still in the house but they have taken everything i could use as evidence.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by slimboyfat View Post
        I only had the duty solicitor but im am looking for a specialist,im still in the house and she is only doinh this to stop me seeing the children.
        This is what struck me as well.

        Do you mind giving your county (nothing more detailed) so that someone might advise you of a specialist solicitor?
        "Be sure your sin will find you out"

        Numbers 32:23

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        • #5
          Do you still have the residence order form for the children?
          If not you might and must get a copy as it will help you sonner or later.

          I am sure some other members will help you more with their knowledge but keep faith
          and try to find documents or material evidence which could help you.
          Do not give anything to the police but only to your solicitor.
          Non,je ne regrette rien.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Faith View Post
            This is what struck me as well.

            Do you mind giving your county (nothing more detailed) so that someone might advise you of a specialist solicitor?
            Yes im from gloucestershire,I have had my phones seized so i contacted social services as they are involved with our family case and she has refused to allow them to give me her phone numbers to be able to talk to the children even though i have them on my seized phone and i used to phone them as per the court orde that she has broken 6 times in 4 weeks.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
              Do you still have the residence order form for the children?
              If not you might and must get a copy as it will help you sonner or later.

              I am sure some other members will help you more with their knowledge but keep faith
              and try to find documents or material evidence which could help you.
              Do not give anything to the police but only to your solicitor.
              No only a contact order at the moment.

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              • #8
                Did you apply for a residence order?

                If yes ,one solicitor must have it.

                Or ,was it just a contact order?

                If it was a residence order I would understand that she might be quite upset about it,if it was just a contact order...
                Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
                  Did you apply for a residence order?

                  If yes ,one solicitor must have it.

                  Or ,was it just a contact order?
                  I did have a prohibited steps order but then she was granted an interim residence order and i had a contact order.

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                  • #10
                    Also during the court hearing on the 11 june,the judge was making his summeries and in his words " it has been noted with the court that mrs @&%$£ has decieved the court on numerous occations today" will this be of any use?

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by slimboyfat View Post
                      Yes im from gloucestershire,I have had my phones seized so i contacted social services as they are involved with our family case and she has refused to allow them to give me her phone numbers to be able to talk to the children even though i have them on my seized phone and i used to phone them as per the court orde that she has broken 6 times in 4 weeks.
                      If you can afford to pay privately try Chris Saltrese...
                      Also, look into EBR Attridges.

                      Someone else might have others.
                      Read the thread 'Falsely Accused: What to do now'

                      Are you still on bail?
                      "Be sure your sin will find you out"

                      Numbers 32:23

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Faith View Post
                        If you can afford to pay privately try Chris Saltrese...
                        Also, look into EBR Attridges.

                        Someone else might have others.
                        Read the thread 'Falsely Accused: What to do now'

                        Are you still on bail?
                        I was made redundant last week im now on the dole so i will loose the house soon aswell as she has not paid the mortage since last september and has not paid any other bill either although i thpught she was paying them ( i worked away all week so never saw and letters) and im on bail to appear back to the police on 22nd october.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by slimboyfat View Post
                          One of my friends were also arrested for rape and bailed the same as me, she has never even met my friend.Our answers to the questions they asked about our friendship and now long we have been friends were the same as we have no reason to lie.She even walked past my friend in the county court house the previous day and didn't even batter an eyelid at him.
                          Why would your wife batter an eyelid at your friend if she never met him before?
                          Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
                            Why would your wife batter an eyelid at your friend if she never met him before?
                            Because she has named him as one of the men that are supposed to of raped her!!!

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                            • #15
                              You need to talk to a solicitor about your house and maybe to the citizen advice bureau.
                              Non,je ne regrette rien.

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