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Hi everyone,
Last sunday my husband got a phone call from is mother saying the police had been looking for him at her address. Not knowing what it was for he went to the police station where he spent 5 hours to then come out and tell me he was being accoused of historicial rape! involving my husband and a now 16 year old girl, who claims she would have been 14 at the time. he wasnt charged, but bailed until the 17th june.
i would be greatfull for any advice on this situation. this is how it stands at the moment.
Her statement claims:
On the 26th of december 2010 she was at my husbands house with his ex her dad and his partner having drinks for my husbands birthday! she claims, when her dad and his partner went home his ex had fallen asleep on the sofa and my husband dragged her upstairs telling her to shut up, were he then raped her! this is all we know because at that point my husband stopped the officer interviewing him stating he didnt need to hear anymore as that itself was the biggest load of rubbish! the officer had said it was his chance to get his side across regarding the incident, my husband replied by saying there was no incident as it was all rubbish!
His statement:
He first stated that this could not have happened on this date as he was with me all day, which he was as it was our first christmas together! the officer then stated she must have got her dates wrong which often happens!
He then went on to say that this actual gathering of people happen the year before, december 2009, but no such thing happened! after having drinks for his birthday he went up to bed roughly befor midnight to watch tv in bed and fall asleep. while leaving his ex and her daughther up and still drinking, this girl in question was also still down there. This girl was also apparently drinking and very drunk at this point! she kept going upstairs to wear my husband was and sitting on the end of the bed, and he had to keep getting his ex's daugther to keep taking her back downstairs!
He also stated to the police that he was good friends with her dad at the time and thats how this girl got involved in there life, was because she was his daugther!
He said even after this night she was still coming round with her dad my husband was still going to there house, and everytime my husband called her dad she would be asking to talking to my husband, so at this point was making no sense to mu husband why she would be doing this to him. my husband did not have a solicitor present with him in his interview as he didnt feel he needed one given the fact he didnt do anything wrong.
two days later he went he to collect his children from his ex partner when he told her what had happened and that she should expect a visit from the police, when he explained when then was she gave him imformation even he couldnt remember.
for instance. this girl had been sick all down herself and had to be given one of my husbands t-shirts to wear. the fact that 3 other people turned up for drinks and stayed there all night. my husbands ex also told him that she didnt even go to sleep that night.
so in light of it all i dont think she thought about her lie all that well!
after alot of searching i managed to find her on facebook where i managed to backtrack to 2009 where 3 days after this supposed rape toke place she is having an arguement with two girls stating what a bull****ter she is, as she was saying something about friends of theres!!
i have also printed out since 2009 as she had no problem putting posy pictures of herself on there along with flirting with boys and saying how sad it was that she wouldnt have a boyfriend on valentines day. now i know its not really evidence as such, but the girl did not change at all! nothing changed about her personality, and im sure after this apparent thing has happned to you, the last thing you want to do is go on facebook posting comments and pictures.
i think i got it all in there, but as you can imagine i dont really know what is likely to happen from here and also why the police have not spoken to anyone that can prove my husband did not do it.
thanks
Last sunday my husband got a phone call from is mother saying the police had been looking for him at her address. Not knowing what it was for he went to the police station where he spent 5 hours to then come out and tell me he was being accoused of historicial rape! involving my husband and a now 16 year old girl, who claims she would have been 14 at the time. he wasnt charged, but bailed until the 17th june.
i would be greatfull for any advice on this situation. this is how it stands at the moment.
Her statement claims:
On the 26th of december 2010 she was at my husbands house with his ex her dad and his partner having drinks for my husbands birthday! she claims, when her dad and his partner went home his ex had fallen asleep on the sofa and my husband dragged her upstairs telling her to shut up, were he then raped her! this is all we know because at that point my husband stopped the officer interviewing him stating he didnt need to hear anymore as that itself was the biggest load of rubbish! the officer had said it was his chance to get his side across regarding the incident, my husband replied by saying there was no incident as it was all rubbish!
His statement:
He first stated that this could not have happened on this date as he was with me all day, which he was as it was our first christmas together! the officer then stated she must have got her dates wrong which often happens!
He then went on to say that this actual gathering of people happen the year before, december 2009, but no such thing happened! after having drinks for his birthday he went up to bed roughly befor midnight to watch tv in bed and fall asleep. while leaving his ex and her daughther up and still drinking, this girl in question was also still down there. This girl was also apparently drinking and very drunk at this point! she kept going upstairs to wear my husband was and sitting on the end of the bed, and he had to keep getting his ex's daugther to keep taking her back downstairs!
He also stated to the police that he was good friends with her dad at the time and thats how this girl got involved in there life, was because she was his daugther!
He said even after this night she was still coming round with her dad my husband was still going to there house, and everytime my husband called her dad she would be asking to talking to my husband, so at this point was making no sense to mu husband why she would be doing this to him. my husband did not have a solicitor present with him in his interview as he didnt feel he needed one given the fact he didnt do anything wrong.
two days later he went he to collect his children from his ex partner when he told her what had happened and that she should expect a visit from the police, when he explained when then was she gave him imformation even he couldnt remember.
for instance. this girl had been sick all down herself and had to be given one of my husbands t-shirts to wear. the fact that 3 other people turned up for drinks and stayed there all night. my husbands ex also told him that she didnt even go to sleep that night.
so in light of it all i dont think she thought about her lie all that well!
after alot of searching i managed to find her on facebook where i managed to backtrack to 2009 where 3 days after this supposed rape toke place she is having an arguement with two girls stating what a bull****ter she is, as she was saying something about friends of theres!!
i have also printed out since 2009 as she had no problem putting posy pictures of herself on there along with flirting with boys and saying how sad it was that she wouldnt have a boyfriend on valentines day. now i know its not really evidence as such, but the girl did not change at all! nothing changed about her personality, and im sure after this apparent thing has happned to you, the last thing you want to do is go on facebook posting comments and pictures.
i think i got it all in there, but as you can imagine i dont really know what is likely to happen from here and also why the police have not spoken to anyone that can prove my husband did not do it.
thanks
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