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Thanks all so much for thinking of us and waiting for the results! sorry the last three days were long and so surreal.. I dont know how to feel now.. I cant even remember my phone number or talk straight! I think all the energy and fight just left my body.. it hasnt sink in yet..but really happy to have my man with me tonight that it hasnt sink in yet.. we dont know how we will sleep tonight..maybe I need the calming tablets still!!
After two years, we gained back our freedom! There is hope out there, we can fight those liars!!! There is hope in the british system.. if we educate people about false allegations we would be saving lives! We followed every advise we can.. I know cases are different but it does have common things and apply it to our case. I would post again.. there is so much to tell but my mind is shutting down... :-)
"I dreamt I went to the doctor's and she gave me eight minutes to live. I'd been sitting in the f**king waiting room half an hour." Sarah Kane (4.48 Psychosis)
I am so happy to contribute some good news to the forum! :-) I still feel very disoriented, with bits of anger, disbelief bursting out..but as everybody say I should be thankful as it can go the other way also. It was the worst and happiest day of our lives so far. The jury deliberate over the case during their lunch..so about an hour of it i think.
We were lucky to have 9 men and 3 women jury who really did carry out their role well..not one time did I see any sleepy eyes.. although they look expressionless..which maybe have been helpful as we go through the stories of the liars.. but it does not give you any reassurance at all. We had a very fair judge, and a good barrister! He had guided well my partner how to give his evidence. The liars were all caught lying, and the other two independent witnesses (one plod). Cannot say much because this is a public forum.
We went into the court room, I was ready to hear a guilty verdict because of that just sick feeling and then I heard the big man says not guilty.. for each charges..and my eyes were just full of tears and at the end of the last not guilty verdict just cried loudly..embarassing!! But what a relief to know I am not losing my man and we can spend our lives together.
There is hope there..but we have to fight hard to win.. follow every advise, pray hard and remain strong so the damage these people will inflict on us would be lesser. Now picking up the pieces of life is hard at this time...but hopefully we will move on ..
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