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hope it is going well for you today, i also can not give you much advice as hubby not had his trial yet.
but please stay strong the truth must come out.
thinking of you xx
better day .prosecution really bullied me,but i fought back and gave her as good as she gave me.the actual rapes were the usual " I put it to you " that you raped the girl etc she kept asking me to read my statement i said I don t need to I know what I said.Most of the questions were aimed at dates and where I was etc ,The truth can alway be remembered and always be consistent.I had some horrible experiences but remember them in detail.She was very good but i did not rape the complainant and knew all my facts were correct and I never lied not once .Some of the examination was about my feelings and stuff saying i was aggressive which I am really but there are many million aggressive folk in uk but that does not make you a rapist she also said i was domineering which to a degree I suppose i am .but Margaret Thatcher was too .dont get me wrong I am not nasty person but I am not a door mat .I have a big heart and feel things being small i guess made me aggressive but surely that is part of my personality and not something to use against me as a battering ram.Barrister said I did ok and was perfect with my statement was a bit scare though prosecutor was aggressive too summing up to day going to look into appeals because if convicted on these unsubstantiated lies I think I might be strong in an appeal documents missing and complainant alleging 3 different time periods etc .I know i did not do it and must fight on to the end
you're doing really well Sadman - good point about the statement, as she will have been given hers to read before she gave evidence.
Hope all goes well today.
And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world. Then made the world round .... and laughed and laughed and laughed ..
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