Let your ex run ragged at this stage. Let her unleash her venom and show her dark side. If she has a solicitor acting then this most likely won't happen though. Over time her solicitor will realise her motives and selfishness and allow her to make an ass of herself.
Long term you need to ensure that you put your differences with your ex aside and focus entirely on your little lady. Everything that you do you are doing for her, do not get involved in disputes and provide mature counter-arguments to anything that she puts on the table. Ensure that everything you do shows devotion to your daughter and not malice towards your ex. Show that you are willing to interact with your ex in any manner required to ensure your daughter doesn't suffer.
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The courts are not a push over when it comes to children. They will investigate every avenue available to them as ultimately their failures can result in a child being damaged.
If only that were true all of the time. Sometimes they are completely conned by the ex or the judge is unfairly prejudiced, and disastrous mistakes are made.
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I would have your solicitor table 'relationship counselling' as a first avenue to explore. Have your ex refuse it, if she accepts then all the better but you need to show determination to exhaust all avenues fairly and thoroughly. Start simply and allow her to dig a hole unless she IS willing to get over any hatred for you for the sake of your daughter.
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