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I am really sorry if i am breaking any rules, by posting as much as i have today, its just i have not been able to talk about this to anyone as so many people judge and also i know both parties and anyone i speak to knows them too and i dont wanna people talking about it in gossip...
i was wondering if anyone would mind, if i posted a few things that has lead me to the reason why i think he is not guilty of this, maybe and outside person can give me their view on the points i want to make? if anyone has some spare time to do this with me it would mean a lot.
He has told me they both were happy to have sex, she has said it was rape.
3 hours after he had left this girl he came back to my house, i had thrown his stuff out of the window and locked the doors, HE called the police cos i would not let him in.... if someon had just commited this serious crime, do you think they would call the police to come and help them hours later? in my mind i would have thought he be too scared?
he knew personal things about her only she could have told him, but she says they did not speak..*chit chat* ... if i was with a strange man i was scared of i would have been to scared to tell him personal info i would have lied or said nothing.
she remembers excatly how many drinks or what drinks she had that night, but she cant remember if she pulled her trousers down or him?
he put the condom in the bin next to where they had sex.... would he not try to get rid of it far away if he felt he had done wrong?
she says she had her arms round him 'snoggin' (her words) him back...
these are some of the things that have been on my mind, not understanding... i really dont mean to cause any offence, by posting this and i fully understand if it gets removed, i just need some help getting my own mind round things, and would like to hear what someone thinks from the above who is not personally involved, where emotions and etc can over take you?
i was wondering if anyone would mind, if i posted a few things that has lead me to the reason why i think he is not guilty of this, maybe and outside person can give me their view on the points i want to make? if anyone has some spare time to do this with me it would mean a lot.
He has told me they both were happy to have sex, she has said it was rape.
3 hours after he had left this girl he came back to my house, i had thrown his stuff out of the window and locked the doors, HE called the police cos i would not let him in.... if someon had just commited this serious crime, do you think they would call the police to come and help them hours later? in my mind i would have thought he be too scared?
he knew personal things about her only she could have told him, but she says they did not speak..*chit chat* ... if i was with a strange man i was scared of i would have been to scared to tell him personal info i would have lied or said nothing.
she remembers excatly how many drinks or what drinks she had that night, but she cant remember if she pulled her trousers down or him?
he put the condom in the bin next to where they had sex.... would he not try to get rid of it far away if he felt he had done wrong?
she says she had her arms round him 'snoggin' (her words) him back...
these are some of the things that have been on my mind, not understanding... i really dont mean to cause any offence, by posting this and i fully understand if it gets removed, i just need some help getting my own mind round things, and would like to hear what someone thinks from the above who is not personally involved, where emotions and etc can over take you?
i also write a lot of poetry even tho my spelling leaves a lot to be desired lol
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