I'm a father of 3 falsely accused of rape and other matters by my wife

[RFLH]

that is such good news! Enjoy!

[Boys don't cry]

Enjoy!!!

I hope I will be the next one.
I know that when I will see my son (tears are already flooding)
I miss him so much.

[largactyl1]

Good news about seeing your kids
Kind regards
Jen

[Sonic757]

Just to update all
I had an amazing weekend last week I finally got to see my children and we had some great fun.i got my 7 year old a mobile phone so when he's lonely or just wants to talk he can call me.
My eldest son (15) seems to be off with me I just keep wondering what my ex has been saying to them and what she has told them and asked me not to go with him on his rugby tour .
I know that my exs boyfriend has moved in as I saw them leave the house together when I picked up the children.
I am a bit worried as I heard a rumour that he has hit women in the past (only a rumour from a good source) I just worry about them now and not been around at short notice as I have started full time work about 100 miles away from them.
I am also stressed as my bail date is coming up on the 16 April ..its horrible this waiting game

[fighter]

sonic, happy to hear about the good news! Good that your 7 year old son has a phone and can call you anytime. I hope you can also know whats wrong with your eldest son. WHy women has to be cruel!
Sending you courage and strength vibes for APril 16! hope it brings another good news!

[Faith]

The last couple of weeks approaching the bail date is the worst. Ask your solicitor to ring a few days in advance to see whether you actually need to attend. If its a rebail or NFA you may be told you don't have to go to the station

[wunderland]

Hey sonic,
I got a strong feeling you will be NFA congrats on your victory god bless you

[Sonic757]

Hi all
I have just spent the last 2 weeks worrying as my bail date was yesterday 16 April.I was told on Friday that I was going to be re bailed until the 25th June..Solicitor said this was due to the case had not been sent to the CPS for review yet.My conditions of bail still exist :-
No contact with my ex directly or indirectly and I cannot go to my own home.

My ex is living a normal life lording it up her boy friend who now stays at my house with my children there.It feels like at the turn of a switch I have been replaced and have my hands tied I feel hopeless I just don't know how to fight back.

At least I can see the children but that seems such a struggle as I have to go through the older children to be able to see them .I live about 70miles from them. But I have decided to move back to the South Coast area so I can be there for them.My 7 year old tells me he's unhappy and wants me home ...HOW DO I FIGHT WHEN I FEEL ALL IS AGAINST ME

[Faith]

It's difficult to fight in limbo as there is little you can physically do.
It's a very long waiting game, I truly hope that it works out for you and you can rebuild your life and the time you are missing out on.

[Sonic757]

Police left me a message today on my mobile.I was absolutely dreading calingl them back.
CPS had reviewed my case and it's good news they are not going to charge me with the rape allegations ,and all that's happening is I am going to be cautioned by the police over the common assault charge!!!!!!!i am a free man ,,,I know I should break open the champagne but I feel a sence of anger to what she has put me through.I don't think it has sunk in yet and the relief to what has happened,
This is the first day of my life rebuilding can start now without fear, stress and that dark cloud feeling i had.
Thank to everyone who has contributed there own stories on this site,it has helped me through some of the darkest places in my mind imaginable .

Upwards. And no looking back

[Saffron]

You can expect to be on an emotional rollercoaster for a while. This is normal. Keep coming back if you need to.

[Browneyedgirl]

That's absolutely fantastic news. I think you should definitely crack open that bottle of champagne. So very pleased for you. xxxxxxxx

[Casehardened]

This is such great news

Thanks for coming back to let us know as this will give hope to those members still waiting on the CPS.

[wunderland]

lol i told you i could smell a nfa ......good job buddy enjoy your new life stay away from that deviant woman