Loved one accused of rape

[Denise]

Still no news, I've been a bag of nerves all day here at work :/( xx

[fighter]

hugs Denise. Do you have a solicitor already; maybe they have an update? Are you still waiting for the call from the Police? hang in there..

[Browneyedgirl]

Denise, is it worth ringing the OIC? You mentioned previously she had said about intervention from her superiors if there wasn't any news. Just thinking that the longer you are waiting late on a Friday, the more likely you will be waiting until Monday - assuming she is on duty come Monday. I appreciate you might not be able to make calls in private at work though.

My heart goes out to you - the waiting is just cr*p isn't it?

Much love. xx

[Denise]

Fighter & browneyedgirl

Yes still waiting for call from OIC to tell me CPS decision

I finish @ 4 so if no call I'll call her as I leave work, I don't really want to know in one way while I'm at work, but I do

My management know the whole story, I've worked here years and they knew how I used to feel On a Friday when it was the liars weekend to visit so they are on my side plus it was my boss who got his police friend out to me to try to persuade me to press charges when their father beat me, what a naive fool I've been

We kind of appointed a solicitor but he's not involved yet until we get a decision but he's just a general solicitor in a small town xx

[Browneyedgirl]

I know exactly what you mean about wanting to know, but then not wanting to know. I'm so glad you have the support of your work colleagues and they know the heartache you have suffered from those liars. Try to get through the next hour and I hope you get an answer one way or another today - the right answer being NFA.

Hang in there flower. xx

[fighter]

praying for a call with positive result for you denise! i hope it is settled today.

[worriedandconcerned]

Good luck Denise

Its the waiting that is the killer isnt it ? And they make sure they drag it out as much as possible.

[felix]

Denise, hang in there, and remember WHICHEVER way it goes - re-bail, NFA or (hope not) decision to charge, it is far from the end of the road. Charge gives you chance to fight. Re-bail continues the roller coaster. NFA introduces you to the up and down emotions of recovery. No road is easy, but all have their good parts.

[Saffron]

Wise words there from Felix.
I hope you get the result you want today x

[fighter]

Denise, are you okay? -- wrong question. I hope you are hanging on; crossing my fingers you have got your call by now. Hugs, sending you strength and courage vibes.

[Denise]

Thankyou everyone (the majority of times I check I'm on my phone so it's hard to answer everything properly and it's so hard to browse others stories)

Still no news :/(

I called her @ 4 and got no reply
Sometimes I think she's full of you know what and tries to let me think she's got more power than she really has

This was the earliest I could get on because I pick my son up from college and make detours to get him home

The only consolation is is that it's Friday again, my palpitations have slowed down and I can hide away again until Monday morning

You guys are amazing and whatever decision we do get I will always come here to help where I can, I just wish I had more access on my laptop

Xx

[Browneyedgirl]

Denise, I am sorry you haven't had any response yet. Keep trying though. I guess she will have finished for the day, but if you are up to it, I would keep trying this evening or call her tomorrow. It's very poor that she said she would ring and hasn't. Even if she hadn't got any news, she should still update you to that effect.

I am concerned about your mention of palpatations. Have you been to see your GP? Sending you big hugs lovely. xx

[fighter]

Denise, dont worry about not replying at once or to all entries. We are just worried how it went with you..no pressure. Hang in there; please enjoy the weekend!

[Izzy]

I'm not suprised you've got palpitations, with all the stress you've been under. I would see the Doctor if I was you Denise, just to get yourself checked and you might get something to help you through it all.
I'm sorry you've got another weekend of uncertainty.
Take care and hang in there. x

[Denise]

Well it's quite ironic really, back in those days when the eldest accuser stole from us, I took it very bad. One night I went to the toilet and couldn't breathe, next day I went to docs explaining my symptoms, heart would thump ten to the dozen, when it did I felt faint and could hear all the blood rushing in my head, it would happen too if I went lay down, like a swelling feeling in my neck

Docs did all the tests and said I had heart arrhythmia, I remember saying to their father that I bet it's the stress they cause me

Tried beta blockers but it made it worse
So I avoided caffeine and it settled

When we split I was technically homeless, I stayed with family and friends and moved counties, all the palpitations happened again so I know it's stress related

Now it's back agsin, plus I've developed indigestion and a feeling of like a lump in my throat for a little while then the indigestion kicks in

Those bloody girls will be the death of me I'm sure

Perhaps that's their plan ?!
Xx