Loved one accused of rape

[LS]

Oh, if it's only fifteen, I would open each one by right clicking and Open With and selecting MS Word and see if each one looks to you like it contains a conversation.

It's the only option there is. Cross fingers it's one of those.

[Denise]

Okay. What worries me is that you haven't got a copy of My Received Files. That tells me that recording wasn't switched on.

However, in the meantime I would do a search for Messenger or Messenger Log and see if the search shows anything up. If it doesn't then chances of any evidence being there are slim.

I definitely haven't seen 'my received files' which seems really odd to me (I have no idea of computers) but the ex was a pc whiz and snooped in my absence.

[Denise]

Do you mean when I am in messenger search messenger log ?

[LS]

Certainly the Windows Live xsl would be worth investigating, as WL is the umbrella program which would contain Messenger.

The good thing is that even without evidence from 2 years back, it's only a tiny part of your evidence, it's not as if the entire defence hinges on it.
It's a minor setback, but not a huge one. Was worth checking it out just in case the Messenger Log had been there.

[LS]

Do you mean when I am in messenger search messenger log ?

Sorry, no. Search for the words MessengerLog using the search button at the bottom left.

[Denise]

I can't find it LS, You are right, I'm clutching at straws, but while my mind is working like this, at least I know I'm leaving nothing out, to try all avenues and fail is better than not searching at all. I'm so mad at myself, If I had had even the slightest inkling about what the future would've held, I would have logged everything. But then again, if we all knew the future, this forum wouldn't be in existence. So sad. But thankyou sooo much for your help, You've been great x

[LS]

That's okay, at least we know it's not there - it'd be awful to not have looked if you did have it.

[Browneyedgirl]

Hi Denise
Just wanted to wish you all the very best for tomorrow. I will be thinking of you.

[Denise]

Hi Denise
Just wanted to wish you all the very best for tomorrow. I will be thinking of you.

Thankyou....what do you reckon the chances are there will be a decision ? we were told last friday then told tomorrow......I do and I don't want to know x

[Browneyedgirl]

I can empathise with you Denise, I really can. I wish I had a crystal ball and could answer your question. As many have said in other threads, its almost like a lottery not knowing if or even when you are going to get that result. I hope and pray that it is NFA for you. Remember everyone is here to support you whatever the decision may be. Much love. xx

[Denise]

I can empathise with you Denise, I really can. I wish I had a crystal ball and could answer your question. As many have said in other threads, its almost like a lottery not knowing if or even when you are going to get that result. I hope and pray that it is NFA for you. Remember everyone is here to support you whatever the decision may be. Much love. xx

Thankyou, and I really mean it....I'm going to log off now, I don't think I can read anymore heartbreaking stories tonight

I really appreciate you all x

[Browneyedgirl]

Hang in there Denise, you are doing brilliantly. If you are able to, let us all know how it goes tomorrow. Take care. xx

[fighter]

My thoughts are with you denise and your family. Take things easy tomorrow, try to avoid any other stress, be calm. Sending you strength and courage vibes and definitely crossing my fingers and toes that you get a positive decision. Take care of yourself.

[RFLH]

hope it goes well for you.

[Denise]

Thankyou everyone, I'm rubbish tonight and can't stop crying, I read a thread on here about what to expect when your loved one or you go to prison & it's destroyed me, I hate liars who try to ruin people's lives through revenge & financial gain xx