Hello - mother of falsely accused son

[So angry and hurt]

So angry and hurt

Yes thanks all for your comments I can understand all of them , I do still feel that for somebody who has never seen the inside of a court room it could be helpful, maybe even just sit in on a case that is less sensitive to give an idea of where people sit, how much time is wasted on legal argument , and a general who's who. I find that if I know where I'm going it takes away some anxiety.

[Dave]

How about asking your sol the general procedure of the court? maybe better than a visit? I must admit I had not a clue, and with my nerves being shot to pieces made a bit of an arse of myself, could have done with a few general pointers on the to do's or not to do's.

[Izzy]

How about asking your sol the general procedure of the court? maybe better than a visit? I must admit I had not a clue, and with my nerves being shot to pieces made a bit of an arse of myself, could have done with a few general pointers on the to do's or not to do's.

I think that's a good idea, get his opinion on what's for the best.
I do see where you are comming from though as it's pretty daunting to be in court when you have never been in that position before and you want to be prepared.
I had never been in court in my life until earlier this year and didn't realise your bag was searched, unfortunately I keep everything but the kitchen sink in mine and it didn't go down well! Was a bit of a surreal moment to say the least.

[So angry and hurt]

So hurt and angry

Maybe I'll take a mousetrap!

[Izzy]

Good idea! I do think it would be worthwhile getting your solicitors view on maybe doing a visit and if it would be a good idea.
Hows your Son doing?

[whatsgoingon?]

I think I'll take some rat poison!

[Boys don't cry]

Pas vu,pas pris

(Not seen,not taken)

[whatsgoingon?]

Tha's it...

[So angry and hurt]

So hurt and angry

Good idea! I do think it would be worthwhile getting your solicitors view on maybe doing a visit and if it would be a good idea.
Hows your Son doing?

Well he is being a a bit naughty,! He really doesn't seem interested in working on the defence, he is, in my opinion in a better place than me but of course that could all be him blocking it out, I ask him all the time how he is feeling, he says he is fine and tells me not to worry, he has some choice words for "madam " but then so do I ! He seems irritated with going over and over the same thing.
Having said all of that, when we go to the solicitors ( and when he does join in) he always recounts every detail exactly as he did originally, he never exaggerates to make his own story good (he even puts me straight when I jump to his defence) he is open and honest and has remembered some interesting points that will help us , and he is coming to realise that as we do go through statements that the lies come out bit by bit. He calls me Miss Marples ! I find it much easier to talk about it in short bursts rather than all day everyday, I don't think the case is getting to him ,I think I am ! Still never mind ,the homework has to be done and I can't do it for him coz I wasn't there (thankfully)

[Izzy]

I love the Miss Marples name

He sounds like he get's on good at the Solicitor's. Sometimes it's a bad thing to speak about it too much at home, it's a fine line between that and pretending that it's not happening but I know from my personal experience I spoke about it to much at the beginning and I think that probably got to my Son too.

[Boys don't cry]

Whatsgoingon?

I would like to wish both of you all the best for next week.

Sincerely and not only because I miss you in the music thread.

You have an excellent team defending you.
You have s protecting you.

Take care,you are both in my thoughts.

[Izzy]

Thnking of you all WGO, I know this weekend will be really hard.

Have the bananas all ready

[So angry and hurt]

So hurt and angry

You know we are here for you, and I know you are a strong intelligent lady who's not taking any s....
So go and stand by your boy and get this over with ,you have a life to live and this is just an obstacle in the way . It will soon be over( providing somebody has some common sense ) he shouldn't be there in the first place and I'm sure they will see that very quickly xxxx you've come this far not long now xxxx

[whatsgoingon?]

Thank you so much for your support. You don't know how much it means to me You're right SHnA - he shouldn't be there. You are all one of the s BDC has mentioned. What a load of **** this is.
Don't be surprised if I'm not on here for a few days...

[myhome]

Don't be surprised if I'm not on here for a few days...

Hope all goes really well for you - thinking of you and let us knnow what's happening when you can. In the meantime, here's one of these to help keep you going......