14 days to go after waiting for 18 months

[fighter]

Corkycat and Verity,

Thanks for this psalm. I will definitely make this my mantra when fear grips me.

[kazzarat]

Positive meeting last night

Hi guys i just wanted to update you all what happened when we met with the barrister last night. He was extremely positive and feels the prosecution have a really weak case, there are lots of indesrepencies in her statement and she has lied on more than one occasion. He has been through the evidence with a fine tooth comb and feels we are in a very good position. He says my son is an excellent witness and feels he will be good in the witness box as there are no discrepencies in his account of all of this and it all matches his statement , which was taken 18 months ago as he is telling the truth so there isnt going to be, we have some good witnesses to bring forward and i do feel a little more positive about it as does my son. I wish i could take all this worry away from him and that is the worst thing i am so helpless and as a mum this is something i find hard to deal with. Feel a little better this morning but cant get complacent . I will keep you all informed thanks again for your continued support xxxx

[fighter]

That is great news kazzarat! hugs!! that should ease some worries of you and your son. Keep us informed; sending you lots of positive vibes until the day!

[Saffron]

I'm so pleased to hear this Kazzarat. The accuser has a major problem - it's much harder to remember a lie than it is to remember the truth!
Glad you are feeling more positive, please keep us updated

[RFLH]

That sounds really positive - I am pleased for you.

[Joan1978]

Hi Kazzarat,
Im new to this forum and at the beginning of this nightmare, my partner has been falsely accused and we are now waiting for a court date.
After reading through a few of your feeds, i am amazed at your strength and your son is so lucky to have you by his side, you may feel helpless but from the sounds of it your a very strong person.
Its brilliant to hear what the barrister has said and i pray to god the jury see what a liar this girl is and your son walks away with his head held high..
I am amazed how many girls cry rape, i truly thought we where alone in this until this morning when i found this website!!
i wish you and your son all the luck in the world.
x

[daki]

I wish you the best at trial look sharp keep your head up

Stay strong, we need some wins here for motivation I hope you

Set us on that path

[kazzarat]

Thanks everyone

Hi Joan and Daki,

Thankyou for your kind messages, we have 3 days to go and all i keep thinking is that this time next week i have got the biggest hangover ever from celebrating so much with my family. I am trying to be positive but have had some really bad days this last week. My son was really down on Wednesday and so was my dad it is so hard. Joan all i can say to you is keep coming on here and getting the support you need because as i have said so many times i have got so much comfort from this site. Its a very hard long road i wont lie to you and ours is still far from over, we have the most important scary week of our lives coming up and in one sense i cant wait to get it over and hope to see that the little madam gets her comeuppence. Please feel free to message me Joan any time you need some support. If all goes well for us next week i will still come on here and hopefully try to offer advise and support to others. I will post as much as i can next week to keep everyone that has been there for me posted as to how it is going. It is scheduled to last for 4 days so fingers and toes and anything else you can manage to cross for us that we get the result that is right xxxxxxxxxx

[fighter]

hi kazzarat, I will be praying for a positive outcome of your trial next week. My partner's case is on May, still a long way and I am dreading already how to cope with it. If I am as close to it as you are now to yours, I would definitely be so nervous! There will be a lot of us crossing our fingers and toes for you! :-)

[kazzarat]

You are all so kind

You will suprise yourself fighter because i have really suprised my self this week i think you get to the point where you just need it to be over we have had a long 18 months of this and i still cant believe that anybody could do this to another human being.
Keep strong and if you can try to put it out of your mind for a while i know that sounds impossible but you do need to try, stay positive as much as you can.
Thanks for all your support and i hope i have fantastic news for you all this time next week. I want my boy back to his normal self and i am normally a very forgiving person but i will never ever as long as i live forgive this girl for what she has done to our family. I hope she is soon to be outed for what she is and that is a liar !!!!!!!

[priory1234]

Hi,

I'm actually going through this RIGHT now and I wanted to thank you for posting that which you have!

I honestly thought I was an exception and the police / cps would realise their mistake. Sadly as far as they're concerned there's no mistake.

You've actually proved to me I CAN fight this!

[NOHOPE]

i will be thinking of you all next week and pray to god you get the right result.

[kazzarat]

Keep strong priory

Are you going to trial soon priory, We are starting on monday which was supposed to start in the morning, our barristers clerk rang me yesterday to say we have now been put back till the afternoon, apparantly some cases from Friday have spilled over till monday, so a bit more of a wait. The good thing about this is that she will have to give her evidence over two days now instead of one. I just hope its all finished by friday. Our barrister told us that Jury,s are told that in rape cases they have to be 100% sure on their decision when the cases arent obvious as ther have to think about the impact on the life of the defendent, i hope this comes through for ours. keep strong priory and keep posting remember you are not alone !!!!!!
I wish there was something we could do after all this is over if he is found not guilty as she deserves to feel how we have felt for the last 18 months, but there isnt. Speak to you all next week hopefully with good news xxxxx

[NOHOPE]

Hi Kaz

do you feel like you are ready for all this come monday, it sounds like you are and your son will get his not guilty verdict.
wish there was something more we could do for you for next week,but basically all we can do is hope and pray it all turns out right in the end. our trial is not till august so god knows what i will be like. stay strong for you son .good luck.

[gem]

kazzarat
hope everything goes well for you next week keep us updated .thinking of you all