Life after sentence.......

[kanday]

Hi gem i am in a similar position with SS, my husband has been found guilty we are looking into an appeal and hopefull but i totally understand how you feel, hearing Judges/probation/SS say horrible things YOU know not to be true about somebody you love, i haven't had any other people say anything to my face or behind my back as yet but let them say what they like we know the truth!! and they most probably would have said the same if he were found not guilty anyway, it' just the way some are...... bugger them, concentrate on what is important!! My love and thoughts are with you xx stay strong!! xx

[gem]

thanks kanday
yes it is hard when the ss dept think your son is low life SA .
how do you begin to tell them he is a lovely dad and son and what they are saying just isnt true. i have been really low this week wondering what the outcome will be,
it seems like we have all been sentenced. i won.t let them beat me though, onwards and upwards i really don.t care what people say now i have passed that stage. i just want my family back as they were before. hope you are ok keep strong xx

[kanday]

I know exactly how you feel gem, they have thought that of hubby from word go, there was never any innocent untill proven guilty and now i am finding it very difficult to find the right words to keep my children with me (most important thing ever) but also say i still belive in his innocence and support him, i'm getting through each day and managing to put my front on for my babies, Where is your son? pm me if you like xx