Hi,
Im still not really worrying as much as maybe i should do about a false rape claim from 7 years ago.
My DNA has come up with a match 7 years ago from a one night stand i had, the women had claimed she had been raped after i had left her house.
I meet the girl out and both had been drinking heavily, i left and thought nothing of it and have not even thought about me being in anyway associated with rape in any shape or form!
Then today out of the blue a call from the police saying my DNA has been linked to a rape after going back to this ladys house for a one night stand.
How worried should i be at this stage? I have not ever been in a situation upon having to force myself on somebody for sex and have never even been told NO at any stage of a one night stand! I fear she has regretted having sex and then followed this up with the police.
Im fuming the police didnt follow it up further as i have been going back to the same bar we intially meet for years and years. And nothing was mentioned in the way of a rape claim from that bar in the media etc. if it had been i would have willingly went to the police station, we had sex but it was consensual. 7 years on though is going to be hard for her and indeed for me to remember exactly the course of events 100% accurate...this is what gives me a slight worry as i understand the law will favor her side?
I have agreed to go to the police station for a chat, they have not said i would be arrested as yet. I live 4 hours away from the accused city as moved with work they have said they would travel to me but i said i can travel down ASAP as i want to resolve this and clear my name asap.
Im worried if its her word against mine with no witness as n her bedrooom the law will favour the womens side? of course my DNA is linked as we had sex but it was consensual so im not sure what evidence i can provide other than my relocation of events!
Any help or if anyone has come across this situation before would be great.
I can see the first step of advice is to seek a solictor, i shall look into legal aid as i dont want to be spending my own money on defending myself for a false claim. any info on legal aid would be good as well.
im gutted that this could snow ball in to something that i would be really worried about if it went its full course!! job life etc could be majorly effected over a one night stand 7 years ago!!
thanks for your time
Im still not really worrying as much as maybe i should do about a false rape claim from 7 years ago.
My DNA has come up with a match 7 years ago from a one night stand i had, the women had claimed she had been raped after i had left her house.
I meet the girl out and both had been drinking heavily, i left and thought nothing of it and have not even thought about me being in anyway associated with rape in any shape or form!
Then today out of the blue a call from the police saying my DNA has been linked to a rape after going back to this ladys house for a one night stand.
How worried should i be at this stage? I have not ever been in a situation upon having to force myself on somebody for sex and have never even been told NO at any stage of a one night stand! I fear she has regretted having sex and then followed this up with the police.
Im fuming the police didnt follow it up further as i have been going back to the same bar we intially meet for years and years. And nothing was mentioned in the way of a rape claim from that bar in the media etc. if it had been i would have willingly went to the police station, we had sex but it was consensual. 7 years on though is going to be hard for her and indeed for me to remember exactly the course of events 100% accurate...this is what gives me a slight worry as i understand the law will favor her side?
I have agreed to go to the police station for a chat, they have not said i would be arrested as yet. I live 4 hours away from the accused city as moved with work they have said they would travel to me but i said i can travel down ASAP as i want to resolve this and clear my name asap.
Im worried if its her word against mine with no witness as n her bedrooom the law will favour the womens side? of course my DNA is linked as we had sex but it was consensual so im not sure what evidence i can provide other than my relocation of events!
Any help or if anyone has come across this situation before would be great.
I can see the first step of advice is to seek a solictor, i shall look into legal aid as i dont want to be spending my own money on defending myself for a false claim. any info on legal aid would be good as well.
im gutted that this could snow ball in to something that i would be really worried about if it went its full course!! job life etc could be majorly effected over a one night stand 7 years ago!!
thanks for your time
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