need advice please on false allegation

[NOHOPE]

i totaly agree you should tell your wife the lot. my hubby told me from the start and yes i was furious he had cheated on me but i am standing by him as there is no way he could force himself on anyone.
if i found out about this becasue he had no choice totell me like he been charged or found guilty i think i would of been thinking things like why didnt he tell me , did he do it, if he can hid this from me what else has he hidden from me and so on.

stand up be counted you did the cheating now take the punishment for that and hopefully she will stand by you for this horrible part.

hope everything works out for you we are waiting trial in aug but dont think this will ever leave us.

[Rights Fighter]

This is one of the most sensible answers to this sort of question I have read on here.

[brokenman81]

Thanks i really want to tell her but what is the right time. My mum said to tell her everything and my uncle has said just tell her you have been accused but dont go into the detail about it all.
I thik the best thing is to tell her this has really affected my relationship with her i dont want to touch her cause i feel guilty. She thinks i dont love her cause i wont touch her and it causes alot of arguments. Im also scared to lose my kids they are my world. Comin back off tour should be a happy time but my mum said lookin at my pictures of us all that i look like im carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I wish i would wake up and its just a dream.

No one knows your wife better then you mate!!!

[brokenman81]

No one knows your wife better then you mate!!!

Sent u a private msg mate

[Rights Fighter]

If you have a mutual lady friend (or family member) who she trusts implicitly maybe ask her to sit in on this disclosure so that

a: your partner can see your friend/family member believes you

b: she has a woman to turn to as this will probably what she will need.

It's likely she will ask you to leave while she talks about it to the friend but that in my view, is the best way to go about it.

[LFC6198]

Nfa

I got a phone call 1 hour before i was due to go to the police sation today saying NFA will be taken i would like to thank everybody for there support of the last year and wish everybody in the same position GOOD LUCK and stay positive i know i always didnt but you must..billykickass and brokenman81 thinkin of you lads thanks for the support...

[Faith]

Brilliant news, thank goodness for that. Been a long wait for you but at least the right result was reached.

What are your thoughts on telling your wife?

Here's the customary dancing narnas

[RFLH]

That is brilliant news - I hope you've told your better half??

[Casehardened]

I'm so pleased to hear this news......

[Saffron]

Great news! I wish you all the best.

[Browneyedgirl]

Fantastic news. Go and celebrate. Welldone. xxxxxxxxxx

[billykickass]

Congratultations mate, im really chuffed for you. Now go party and spend that tour bonus.

[largactyl1]

Good news! Hurrah!

[sam]

Congratulations great news

[brokenman81]

I got a phone call 1 hour before i was due to go to the police sation today saying NFA will be taken i would like to thank everybody for there support of the last year and wish everybody in the same position GOOD LUCK and stay positive i know i always didnt but you must..billykickass and brokenman81 thinkin of you lads thanks for the support...

Pleased for you pal!!

Go and enjoy ur life now.