Preparing

[marynarz]

Ok
I'm accused of disgusting think which I haven't done. I'm innocent and I will fight to prove it. That's for sure. But. There is always but, and tbs time too


On another page is my short story :-)


I Have to prepare myself and my family for the worst. It's not ease but this is how it looks. This is first time when I have to go against accusations like this. But what happened I can't change. So in this case I'm preparing my family for court and even for prison. I knowim innocent but this way is much easer and is gonna be much easer when thinks goes wrong.

So


On this stage when next week I have to go back to police station to listen what they gonna do in my case, I'm preparing myself for court.

I just realise that my accuser have few reasons to lie.
I have witness who can confirm that she holds my hands and she was laughing after the "rape" few hours later. And I have little bit more against her :-)
Police gave me duty solicitor when they arrested me so I have someone who will be representing me. But. I can't be sure that this person is good person in this cases. So here is my question.

Is anyone available to help me answer some of my questions which are very important for me? With regards to all users. I don't wanna publish all my case here before is finished. And please don't be upset in any way

Another think is that in this way when I'm thinking about worst have to say that it helps me a lot to go thrue next days.
I know is not good thinking about worst but another story is that if you are thinking a out court and even prison you realise that this is in our hands to make sure that you did everything to prove that you are innocent.

So. I'm in same situation as many of you but what keeps me alive is my family, that I'm innocent and even if comes to the worst (which can happen but hope not) the true will come out. There is only one true and nothing is gonna change that!

So if anyone thinkin about killing himself etc, then stop it! Whe have something to prove here even if it's hard, but is possible. If not now then later but it is possible.

So. I need someone to help me prepare some thinks (advise me what to do if they charge me)

If someone is a available on email and someone know a lot about this kind of stuff then please contact me.

One more think.

This forum is fantastic and thank you for this.

[0990]

Sorry you find yourself here , other people will come on later and give you as much help as they can having been in your position .
I take it from your post you have only been questioned at the moment , when returning to the station if you are charged you will be given bail , whilst on bail any evidence and statements will be sent to the cps , who in turn will decide if the case will go to court
This will take time so you need to stay strong

[marynarz]

Reply

I have posted in other thread all my story :-)

I'm on bail until next week

Here it is:

http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...sely-accused-(

[Amre]

Hi there,
Just read your story there and iam sorry for you. First I think you should quit smoking, as this seams to be the reason that you even met her.
Its great that your wife is standing by you- you will need her support to get thru this.
I'm glad you are preparing for the worst. It helps to think of the worse case outcome AND the best.
I hope it gets nfa'd but it's still good to pack and prison bag and get ready for the worse.
Another small point, I don't want to worry you, but if you are charged and found guilty in court, you will likly be deported after you have served your time.
Is your wife polish too?
Take it one day at a time.

[marynarz]

Reply

Hi there,
Just read your story there and iam sorry for you. First I think you should quit smoking, as this seams to be the reason that you even met her.
Its great that your wife is standing by you- you will need her support to get thru this.
I'm glad you are preparing for the worst. It helps to think of the worse case outcome AND the best.
I hope it gets nfa'd but it's still good to pack and prison bag and get ready for the worse.
Another small point, I don't want to worry you, but if you are charged and found guilty in court, you will likly be deported after you have served your time.
Is your wife polish too?
Take it one day at a time.

Thanks for reply

Well? My wife is Polish, yeah

I know I will be deported so it just push me more to prove that I'm innocent.

[Rights Fighter]

Hi there,
J
I hope it gets nfa'd but it's still good to pack and prison bag and get ready for the worse.

Take it one day at a time.

That's a bit previous - the prison "nasty bag" comes in towards the end of the trial while the jury are out. He's not been charged yet and may never be!

Let's not give him something to have nightmares about as he's got enough on his plate.

[marynarz]

Thanks RF

That's a bit previous - the prison "nasty bag" comes in towards the end of the trial while the jury are out. He's not been charged yet and may never be!

Let's not give him something to have nightmares about as he's got enough on his plate.

RF - thank you if you think this way.

But to be honest Im calm and I think about the worst cos you never know.

But if they says NFA then fantastic.

RF. Can I ask you question on PM, please?

[Rights Fighter]

You can try but I don't think my settings allow you to.

I had to stop my PM option as people were sending me private messages trying to get free "Advice" instead of posting on the forum itself.

I give my time for free and it got to the point where I would be bombarded! You could contact RFLH, Saffron or LS (moderators) as they might be able to help.

[marynarz]

Reply

You can try but I don't think my settings allow you to.

I had to stop my PM option as people were sending me private messages trying to get free "Advice" instead of posting on the forum itself.

I give my time for free and it got to the point where I would be bombarded! You could contact RFLH, Saffron or LS (moderators) as they might be able to help.

Well I understand.

Ok. I will ask here.

If they charge me etc I would like my wife to contact you. Will be possible for her to contact you in case the worst happen?

[marynarz]

Reply

And one more think.

Anyone know them?
http://www.wainwrightcummins.co.uk/

[Rights Fighter]

I see nowhere on that link that relates to criminal Law let alone false allegations. There's a firm called Attridges in London, Gerry "somebody" is the man to ask for. I have found a Gerry McDonald on Attridge's website but not sure if that is the same person so I have emailed somebody who will be able to tell me.

You are a long way from being charged/court appearances. If you stick with us and update us - your wife can take over if the worst happens.

[marynarz]

Reply

I see nowhere on that link that relates to criminal Law let alone false allegations. There's a firm called Attridges in London, Gerry "somebody" is the man to ask for. I have found a Gerry McDonald on Attridge's website but not sure if that is the same person so I have emailed somebody who will be able to tell me.

You are a long way from being charged/court appearances. If you stick with us and update us - your wife can take over if the worst happens.

Many thanks one more time

[Rights Fighter]

Contact

Mr Gerry McDonald (Higher Rights Solicitor)
EBR Attridge LLP Solicitors
436 High Road
Tottenham
London
N17 9JB


www.ebrattridge.com

and say that you have been referred to him by a support group - he may give you advice prior to charge - IF you are charged.

[marynarz]

Rebailed

Well. Iv been rebailed for another time until October. Dont know what to think about this. They sid that they didnt make any decision so in that case they rebailed me again

What do you think about this?

[LS]

It's routine. Nothing to think about it.