Falsely accused of Rape im 16 and feel stuck Please help

[OldJoe]

Hey mate, I'm so sorry to hear that you're in this position, I have been through the same thing, (being falsely accused)
I totally understand how your feeling, drop me a message if you want a chat.
Also, I have just read you're first post, and if I were you, I would do EVERYTHING your solicitor tells you to do. They know how these sort of things work.

Joe.

[Bigsister]

I nearly had a fight some boy is veryone I've been arrested for rape.

That's so out of order. I dont know if there is actually a lot you can do about it either to be honest. I know the guy that was supposed to be a witness against my brother was telling everyone in the court building that my brother was a perv.
I dont know why people are allowed to get away with it seeing as there are reasons identities are not made public at this stage.

[the game]

chin up

what edinguy said about keeping your head down is right. it's also important to keep your chin up.

when I was accused, I felt like my world was turned upsidedown.

I had tickets for a gig 2 days later, so me and my partner decided to go as it would take our minds off what the b*tch had done.

I ended up getting cautioned, but my accuser ended up worse off as people started to disbelieve everything she said.

your true friends will rally round you in this time of need. keep them close and try to avoid talking or thinking about the allegations

[Rights Fighter]

I ended up getting cautioned,

Accepting a caution is classed an admission of guilt and means you have a criminal record for that offence.

[the game]

Accepting a caution is classed an admission of guilt and means you have a criminal record for that offence.

aye, but it wasn't a caution for rape or anything sexual.

[Rights Fighter]

So how is the caution you received relevant to the OP?

[whyisthishappeningtome]

I feel like i have nothing to live for anymore

Im 16 and if this went to Court and the worse happened i would be banished from society all because of a lie. I honestly think if it went to Court and justice was not served I might is well kill myself. I honestly have not done anything i've been reading on the internet about rape and stuff im so scared and even dropping tears whilst I am typing this. The ***** could ruin my life.

[RFLH]

If you haven't already been to your doctors, please go as you are clearly struggling.

Keep posting it will help a little, but what you don't do is give up. If you do something stupid people will only say that you must be guilty and besides which just think what it would do to your family.

You need to fight this, you're stronger than you think. We're here to support you. We care.

[witsend]

hi there whyisthishappeningtome
I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to take on board what others on here have said, very supportive and helpful people. At this moment in time you are in a very dark place, which is totally understandable. You need to get to your GP as soon as possible. Tell him what is happening, you need this support as well. When things are this bad it's always a good idea to ring the Samaritans, phone number on the internet, having somebody impartial to actually talk to really does help. From what I can see going through your threads you have evidence that backs up your side of things. The other thing I would say is that unfortunately this will take time, nobody can say how long as each case is different so you really need to keep coming back here for advice and support. Take care, thinking of you

[largactyl1]

Hi, you must get to your Doc as has been advised. You do not have to feel this bad, you can get through this but you must be open to actively seeking help.

You can phone the Samaritans on 08457909090 or e-mail them jo@samaritans.org

On the phone they won't advise you as such but listen to you and help you deal with feelings. They are there 24/7 and are very good and won't judge you or anything.

Where I live there is a special information/counselling/group thing for 16 -25 yr olds and I wonder if they have one in your area where you could go and talk to a worker.

Kind regards
Jen x

[whyisthishappeningtome]

Its got to a pount where i feel she could ruin my

If my life gets ruined by a false accusation im ambitious. that would leave me with nothing to live for my anger now makes me wanna ruin her life if this ruins mine. I have so much evidence against her though and the fact she said we raped her in february and went to report it in May my solicitor said it is historic. And all those messages on facebook one of her intiating conversation 2 days after shes saying i raped her.

[largactyl1]

Hiya,

I don't blame you for being so very angry and having revenge fantasies are normal - but they must remain in your head obviously and not acted out! It does sound like you have a lot of evidence that would seem to back up your side of things.

Have you spoken to your GP yet about everything that is going on and how you feel?

Kind regards

Jen

[whyisthishappeningtome]

my mum has a massive mouth and relies on friends and framing too much

My mum has told everyone ive been arrested for rape i feel she it so stupid and incosiderate. My aunt came over and my little cousin come into my room and she called her saying what is she doing in my room. I dont even know how i feel about this im not a rapist nor a paedophile the girl in question of the case is 4 months younger then me.

[largactyl1]

Hi there, Mum's can be thoughtless and your Mum hasn't really thought things through before she talks. In her defence, she could be very worried about you and needs to let off steam to her friend or relative?
Kind regards
Jen

[Kermit]

Hi Im kermits fiancee he is serving a prison sentence for a totally fabricated story by my ex husbands daughter.
Do not give the police anything if this does go to court then make sure everything you have to prove you have not raped this girl you hold on to it and only let your solicitor see it.
NEVER GIVE THE POLICE ANYTHING WITHOUT YOUR SOLICITORS ADVICE!
We have facebook evidence along with messages sent to my daughter by her x sister as she calls her now, But have to go through the appeals process to show it as it was not available for kermits trial.
Your parents must be worried out their minds so please dont be harsh on your mum.
I know from our situation everyday i felt guilty for staying in touch with my daughters half sisters and then that caused anger and although without evidence and only her word against kermits he is now in a prison, as he did not give the tears and the sad face like his accuser did.
There will always be a fight for his freedom home by those who know him and that he is innocent, some may say where there is smoke there must be fire but your family and friends know you, and will support you in anyway as we will for Kermit.
Your feelings are natural we all go through them everyday, some days will be ok and others you wont want to do anything, Try as hard as you can to do normal daily things like you would if this was not happening and talk to your parents about what you are feeling, be honest ok and let others help you through your nightmare.
Hang in there ok and i pray you get a NFA soon