I have been to hell and back for the past 5 months. Got news of my NFA four days ago. Feel numb, and very unfulfilled and strange. Nothing from the police station but my solicitor called me and told me it was NFA and has sent a letter confirming it. He has promised a letter from the police station. Apparently he will arrange for me to pick up my seized goods.
The question is - what on earth do I do now?
Particular questions:
1. Do I have to declare this investigation / NFA on any froms - job applications, visa applications etc? The accusation was violent rape involving non-consensual bondage
2. Will it appear on my next CRB check?
3. Am I bound to declare it - a job might be CRB cleared? Or DV cleared?
4. Can I get my DNA and fingerprints erased?
5. Do I have to keep quiet about this whole matter?
6. Am I bound to keep the accusers name confidential?
7. Can I write to 'the papers'?
8. Can I prosecute / sue her?
My biggest problem is that I have no one really to talk to. Wife (superb support), about three close friends (who don't really 'get it') and that is everyone around me who knows about anything.
Solicitor told me to keep quiet until I got an NFA - hence I have been lurking but I have actually been too scared to read much on the site - was better 'not to know' the horrors of what might have happened......
I am sure the questions above have been answered a million times over - please tell me where to go for their treatment.
Thank you SOOOO much
The question is - what on earth do I do now?
Particular questions:
1. Do I have to declare this investigation / NFA on any froms - job applications, visa applications etc? The accusation was violent rape involving non-consensual bondage
2. Will it appear on my next CRB check?
3. Am I bound to declare it - a job might be CRB cleared? Or DV cleared?
4. Can I get my DNA and fingerprints erased?
5. Do I have to keep quiet about this whole matter?
6. Am I bound to keep the accusers name confidential?
7. Can I write to 'the papers'?
8. Can I prosecute / sue her?
My biggest problem is that I have no one really to talk to. Wife (superb support), about three close friends (who don't really 'get it') and that is everyone around me who knows about anything.
Solicitor told me to keep quiet until I got an NFA - hence I have been lurking but I have actually been too scared to read much on the site - was better 'not to know' the horrors of what might have happened......
I am sure the questions above have been answered a million times over - please tell me where to go for their treatment.
Thank you SOOOO much
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