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Hope I have put this in the right section.
Just wondered if anyone had some advice really.
Little bro is 27, has been accused of sexual assault. The worst part is the girl is only 13. Or was 13 a year ago. Her mum had met bro & his mate a week before when out drinking. They all took some drugs too. The next week she had a party at hers & invited them. Along with lots of alkis & generally party people half of which she didn't know. She told them when they walked in the girl was younger than she looked, almost like she was warning them. Which is a bit strange in itself.
Basically bro ended up in the girls bedroom, he doesn't know how, but does remember talking to her little brother upstairs.
Someone walked in the room & she accused him of touching her breast over the top of her t shirt.
He has no interest in teenage girls & never has! The only worrying things are he had done Ketamin that night, yes I know, silly! And he doesn't remember much about the whole night & has no witnesses for himself. His friend wasn't in the room. But the mother of this girl has pushed for this offense & a guy that has always disliked my brother & had beaten him up before was also there literally threw him out the house then beat him up, breaking his arm. The police are waiting the outcome of bros case before deciding if to lay charges on this guy that is a witness against my brother. This guy has been to court for GBH before so if they do prosecute him, he will likely do time. Even though he wasn't in the vicinity at the time & his first staement said he didn't see anything, his second statement says he did! He has also said he pushed my bro down the stairs that's all, & that's how his arm broke. But the injuries dont show that.
I guess I wasn't worried until this weekend. I even thought it would get thrown out? As a lot of the witness statements are inconsistant.
He is in magistrates in the morning, as now is the time I am thinking what could happen?
He wouldn't cope with prison, he is not a fighter, it would finish him off to be honest.
He has only recently stopped taking drugs & sorted his depression out.
He was also ok up until this weekend, but has gone very quiet & withdrawn now. Hoping he will be able to get to court ok tomorrow.
He has a couple of Diazapam to take an hour or so before.
Any advice on what could end up happening would be very grateful. It's been booked for a 2 day hearing?
A couple of weeks after he was questioned by the police I had to have a social worker sit in my living room & talk to my children as my daughter is the same age as this girl. My daughter was asked if her uncle had ever done anything to her. He has stopped here over the years at weekends & plays x box with my son. My daughter loves my brother, her & I trust him completely & my 16 yr old son adores him too, like he's his own big brother, so was not pleasant for either of them to hear her speak about my bro like that! The woman also said there was more to it than touching the girl, but I have since seen the statements & that's not true! Why do these people go out their way to lie?
I haven't ruled out making a formal complaint about her yet, even though she was a nice enough woman generally. He hadn't even been charged at that point!
Sorry it's long..
x
Hope I have put this in the right section.
Just wondered if anyone had some advice really.
Little bro is 27, has been accused of sexual assault. The worst part is the girl is only 13. Or was 13 a year ago. Her mum had met bro & his mate a week before when out drinking. They all took some drugs too. The next week she had a party at hers & invited them. Along with lots of alkis & generally party people half of which she didn't know. She told them when they walked in the girl was younger than she looked, almost like she was warning them. Which is a bit strange in itself.
Basically bro ended up in the girls bedroom, he doesn't know how, but does remember talking to her little brother upstairs.
Someone walked in the room & she accused him of touching her breast over the top of her t shirt.
He has no interest in teenage girls & never has! The only worrying things are he had done Ketamin that night, yes I know, silly! And he doesn't remember much about the whole night & has no witnesses for himself. His friend wasn't in the room. But the mother of this girl has pushed for this offense & a guy that has always disliked my brother & had beaten him up before was also there literally threw him out the house then beat him up, breaking his arm. The police are waiting the outcome of bros case before deciding if to lay charges on this guy that is a witness against my brother. This guy has been to court for GBH before so if they do prosecute him, he will likely do time. Even though he wasn't in the vicinity at the time & his first staement said he didn't see anything, his second statement says he did! He has also said he pushed my bro down the stairs that's all, & that's how his arm broke. But the injuries dont show that.
I guess I wasn't worried until this weekend. I even thought it would get thrown out? As a lot of the witness statements are inconsistant.
He is in magistrates in the morning, as now is the time I am thinking what could happen?
He wouldn't cope with prison, he is not a fighter, it would finish him off to be honest.
He has only recently stopped taking drugs & sorted his depression out.
He was also ok up until this weekend, but has gone very quiet & withdrawn now. Hoping he will be able to get to court ok tomorrow.
He has a couple of Diazapam to take an hour or so before.
Any advice on what could end up happening would be very grateful. It's been booked for a 2 day hearing?
A couple of weeks after he was questioned by the police I had to have a social worker sit in my living room & talk to my children as my daughter is the same age as this girl. My daughter was asked if her uncle had ever done anything to her. He has stopped here over the years at weekends & plays x box with my son. My daughter loves my brother, her & I trust him completely & my 16 yr old son adores him too, like he's his own big brother, so was not pleasant for either of them to hear her speak about my bro like that! The woman also said there was more to it than touching the girl, but I have since seen the statements & that's not true! Why do these people go out their way to lie?
I haven't ruled out making a formal complaint about her yet, even though she was a nice enough woman generally. He hadn't even been charged at that point!
Sorry it's long..
x
but luckily finish at 9am 
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