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Well, where do I start! I am the wife of someone falsely accused of rape. We are quite far in the process, hubby was arrested at end of '09 and was charged at end of '10 it's a historical claim by his ex's underage daughter. We are still devastated we're going through this. I have a daughter and my hubby is allowed to see her as long as it's supervised, which are the obvious bail conditions! Although social services dropped their involvement after 4 months!! And he cant stay here, which as its now been 18 months, is so hard!
Im just having a rubbish day! Nothing in particular has happened just finding it hard to budget with the legal fees we need to pay each month (we do have legal aid but its still cost us nearly 8000), struggling with feeling like this is dragging on and struggling with the sick feeling in my stomach that the court case is looming for July.
It's word against word and so it is down to whom the jury believe and Im so worried that they will believe her over my husband. My husband is one of the nicest people you could meet (yep, im very biased!
) and to see him going through this is so hard. I can't stop thinking of what life would be like without him if he was found guilty, Ive been through a lot and a tough cookie but the more I read about prison the worse I feel. I do try to be positive but I cant help feel that if I dont prepare for the worst then if it was to happen it would hit me a lot harder. We also have debt, well I have a little husband has a lot and Im worrying about that too!
Sorry if Im rambling on, i've watched the forum for quite a while and know that there are other people out there who have been here. I havnt come on here for sympathy or anything like that, just to chat to people if Im feeling down when hubby has gone back to his Dads! But if anyone does have any advice on how to stay with my head up, it would be appreciated!
Im just having a rubbish day! Nothing in particular has happened just finding it hard to budget with the legal fees we need to pay each month (we do have legal aid but its still cost us nearly 8000), struggling with feeling like this is dragging on and struggling with the sick feeling in my stomach that the court case is looming for July.
It's word against word and so it is down to whom the jury believe and Im so worried that they will believe her over my husband. My husband is one of the nicest people you could meet (yep, im very biased!
) and to see him going through this is so hard. I can't stop thinking of what life would be like without him if he was found guilty, Ive been through a lot and a tough cookie but the more I read about prison the worse I feel. I do try to be positive but I cant help feel that if I dont prepare for the worst then if it was to happen it would hit me a lot harder. We also have debt, well I have a little husband has a lot and Im worrying about that too!Sorry if Im rambling on, i've watched the forum for quite a while and know that there are other people out there who have been here. I havnt come on here for sympathy or anything like that, just to chat to people if Im feeling down when hubby has gone back to his Dads! But if anyone does have any advice on how to stay with my head up, it would be appreciated!
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