accused of sexual assault

[garry41]

hi guys
its been nine months now and ive still not heard anything from the police this waiting is awful.

garry

[RFLH]

I shcan't spellould try to put this behind you. Its a long time for them to wait if she went there.

If she was trying to mess with your head, then she's done a bloody good job on you.

Please avoid getting yourself into a position where this could happen again. If you look through the threads you'll see that drink plays a huge part.

Go and enjoy Christmas and write this year off and start afresh next year - a little older and a lot wiser!

[Saffron]

I agree with RFLH. 9 months is a looooong time between the accusation being made and an arrest, especially as they presumably know your name.
If the police do come knocking on your door I would suggest you have a good case for abuse of process....she (allegedly) reported to the police within days of the "assault" and they have still not arrested you 9 months later? ridiculous!

It isn't uncommon for a genuine victim to change their phone number after making a report, but I do find it suspicious that she didn't inform Plod about this.

Are you certain that the witness is telling the truth? Do you know him well and do you trust him?

I would try not to worry too much about this. Easier said than done, I know! Try to put the year behind you and start 2012 with a clean slate. Stay away from situations where you could potentially be vulnerable to this kind of allegation.

Good luck.

[Amre]

All talk maybe? Move on and if it comes up, deal with it then.