Hi,
My son was charged with public indecency in September 2004, he was 17 at the time.
He attended court last week and on the advice of his solicitor, pleaded guilty to an ammemded charge of fondling himself in a public place. The original charge stated that he went to a bus shelter, removed his clothing and masterbated. It happened at 2am and was witnessed by someone in a house nearby.
He has to attend court again on 11th March for sentencing.
What actually happened was.
My son attended an 18th birthday party about 300 yards from the bus shelter. He isn't used to drink but drink was freely available at the party. He had far too much to drink and was violently sick on his clothing in the house where the party took place. He was seen removing his vomit soaked shirt and throwing it in the garden of the house. His friends were shocked to see him in that state and tried unsuccessfully to get him back to the house. He started staggering away but only managed to get a few hundred yards when he was seen holding onto the side of the bus shelter. He then tried to remove his vomit soaked jeans and thats when the police were called.
The people in the house about 100 yards from the bus shelter reported him for masturbating even though the bus shelter is made from what was described as dirty perspex.
The police said he was very, very drunk and covered in vomit. They had to place him in a cell for 6 hours before they could talk to him. He came home at 8am after being released but was still quite incoherent.
Even though the court still has to hear his solicitors evidence on his behalf, we today received a letter saying he has been placed on the sex offenders register for 5 years.
His solicitor didn't get to talk in court on his behalf explaining why he was in that area and about him removing his top in the house where the party took place.
I doubt very much if he was even able to think about sex, let alone masturbate, seeing as he wasn't fit to stand when the police picked him up, only a few minutes after he was reported to them.
Is there any grounds for appeal?
I talked to his solicitor after the court because I thought the judge said he was placing my son on the register and she said I was given false information and it was only a possibility AFTER he receives sentencing.
The court social worker said he was going on the register and told us to go straight to the police station but the C.ID officer said it was also a mistake and after phoning the court he told us to go home. Then why, today did we recive a letter saying he had to go to the police station to register his details and it will continue for 5 years.
I'm at my wits end about this situation.
My son only went for a night out at a party, got extremly drunk and vomited, tried removing his clothing, perhaps his hands were in his genital area but he was incapable of anything sexual, even the police I talked to thought it was all blown out of proportion.
It was only someone in a house who said he was masturbating but she was 13. I know who she is and she is out all hours, drinking and getting picked up by the police.
How is this going to affect my sons life?
He is full time at college but works in a supermarket in the evenings and at weekends.
Could he lose his job over this ?
What does his future hold now?
Is his life ruined for one drunken night when he really did nothing wrong?
He isn't a sex offender, we all know that.
Can someone give me any advice please?
My son was charged with public indecency in September 2004, he was 17 at the time.
He attended court last week and on the advice of his solicitor, pleaded guilty to an ammemded charge of fondling himself in a public place. The original charge stated that he went to a bus shelter, removed his clothing and masterbated. It happened at 2am and was witnessed by someone in a house nearby.
He has to attend court again on 11th March for sentencing.
What actually happened was.
My son attended an 18th birthday party about 300 yards from the bus shelter. He isn't used to drink but drink was freely available at the party. He had far too much to drink and was violently sick on his clothing in the house where the party took place. He was seen removing his vomit soaked shirt and throwing it in the garden of the house. His friends were shocked to see him in that state and tried unsuccessfully to get him back to the house. He started staggering away but only managed to get a few hundred yards when he was seen holding onto the side of the bus shelter. He then tried to remove his vomit soaked jeans and thats when the police were called.
The people in the house about 100 yards from the bus shelter reported him for masturbating even though the bus shelter is made from what was described as dirty perspex.
The police said he was very, very drunk and covered in vomit. They had to place him in a cell for 6 hours before they could talk to him. He came home at 8am after being released but was still quite incoherent.
Even though the court still has to hear his solicitors evidence on his behalf, we today received a letter saying he has been placed on the sex offenders register for 5 years.
His solicitor didn't get to talk in court on his behalf explaining why he was in that area and about him removing his top in the house where the party took place.
I doubt very much if he was even able to think about sex, let alone masturbate, seeing as he wasn't fit to stand when the police picked him up, only a few minutes after he was reported to them.
Is there any grounds for appeal?
I talked to his solicitor after the court because I thought the judge said he was placing my son on the register and she said I was given false information and it was only a possibility AFTER he receives sentencing.
The court social worker said he was going on the register and told us to go straight to the police station but the C.ID officer said it was also a mistake and after phoning the court he told us to go home. Then why, today did we recive a letter saying he had to go to the police station to register his details and it will continue for 5 years.
I'm at my wits end about this situation.
My son only went for a night out at a party, got extremly drunk and vomited, tried removing his clothing, perhaps his hands were in his genital area but he was incapable of anything sexual, even the police I talked to thought it was all blown out of proportion.
It was only someone in a house who said he was masturbating but she was 13. I know who she is and she is out all hours, drinking and getting picked up by the police.
How is this going to affect my sons life?
He is full time at college but works in a supermarket in the evenings and at weekends.
Could he lose his job over this ?
What does his future hold now?
Is his life ruined for one drunken night when he really did nothing wrong?
He isn't a sex offender, we all know that.
Can someone give me any advice please?
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