Help me! Falsely Accused of Rape!

[OldJoe]

Well the only evidence there is, is that I am inoccent. 2 people can vouch that she iniated kissing touching etc with me. And another can say he heard her shouting in pleasure.

[Shatteredhusband]

Did they take your mobile - pretty standard.

[OldJoe]

He said i'll do a quick check on it, took like 15mins, said nothing was on it and gave it me back.

[Shatteredhusband]

How soon after the event were you arrested?

[OldJoe]

After they interviewed me.

[Shatteredhusband]

Sorry I meant how long after the sex was the arrest or interview?

[OldJoe]

They kept bringing up the question of "have I contacted her since intercourse" which I haven't I don't have her number her facebook or anything. So I think they where checking that, maybe shes told them that I have been contacting her.

[OldJoe]

had sex in Sep, Arrested me Friday morning, So about 5 months?

[OldJoe]

Why do you ask ?

[Shatteredhusband]

So it is highly unlikely there will be any forensics, they didn't even take your phone and you know of three witnesses who will corroborate it was consensual.

This sounds a lot more positive than many cases. Although obviously it would be impossible for me to know what will happen. Hopefully this will be resolved before April especially as there do not appear to be any forensics which can take months to come back.

Still think that you should tell your mum. If you try to carry this burden on your own, it could mess up the course you are on.

Sorry I have a long drive so need to sign out. I will try to stop and check in after a couple of hours. Meanwhile hang in there and seriously please tell your mum.

[worriedfather]

Hi Oldjoe
as everyone has said please talk to your mum, it is much better coming from you as there is always the possibility that plod may decide to talk to your mum and that would be a real shock and could make you look guilty. You are innocent, you have done nothing wrong but you need as much support as you can get.
you have not been charged yet, so it may not happen, the requirement for charging is that they stand a reasonable chance of conviction, think what her motive may be, was it a one night stand, did you have a short relationship, did anyone else apart from your friends see her with you and all over you.
sadly you must be cynical and do not expect plod to look for evidence that supports your version of events.
write down everything that you can remember and keep it safe, contact those who can provide evidence on your behalf.
this can be a long haul, there have been people on here who have been bailed time and again, it took a year for my son to go to court, not guilty by the way good luck keep coming back

[OldJoe]

It was a one night stand but it all started when she realised that I was mates with her ex bf.

[witsend]

olodjoe, may I ask why you feel you can't/shouldn't tell your Mum?

[OldJoe]

And yes, her close mate saw her all over me, and even said that I had done nothing wrong. The officers said I can't talk to anyone that was there or involved till they have talked to them.

[OldJoe]

Shes a very strong Christian and she dosen't really know that I may have the odd one night stand or whatever. It would kill her to think her youngest son, was doing things like that.