Hurrah!

[largactyl1]

Well, A. had everything dropped against him - and No Further Action!!!!! Found out today. Thankyou so much to everyone. I will still be coming on this board to offer any help that I can (even though I don't know much, I maybe useful for something).

He is going to his solicitor next week in order to make a complaint against his accuser. She was told this afternoon that it was NFA. Wish I'd been a fly on the wall.

Jen

[the game]

exactly the same thing happened to me today!

[Midnight and Worried]

That is wonderful news for both of you,two more nightmares have come to an end.

It is so encouraging hearing news like this almost on a daily basis,hopefully there will be many more reports like this to give hope to us all.

[RFLH]

oh brilliant - I do like to see good news!!!

[largactyl1]

Thankyou people. It's such a relief - it feels like we've all been holding our breath for 4 months. I did say to A. that after the euphoria has worn off, his mood may drop a bit. (I've been close friends with A. for many years and I've noticed that he manages to get through a stressful event - e.g. when his Mum died - and then sort of collapses afterwards). He sees about making complaint about her actions next week which I hope will give him something to get his teeth into.

Is there anyone with any advice for people who have been for this horribly traumatic experience and have had charges dropped. Did anyone continue to feel anxious and depressed as well as feeling happy?

Jen x

[worriedgirlfriend]

Great news, you must be over the moon !!!

[friday]

fantastic!

[LS]

Brilliant, all! That's 3 cases NFA'd today.

[Saffron]

Oh Jen, I'm so pleased for you and A. I don't know whether he's aware that you are with us, but if so please tell him I am ridiculously happy for him (and you of course).

You have been a wonderful friend to him. I am sure he appreciates everything you have done for him, but I wanted to say that if we all had mates like you the world would be a better place.

((((hugs))))

[Rights Fighter]

Thankyou people. It's such a relief - it feels like we've all been holding our breath for 4 months. I did say to A. that after the euphoria has worn off, his mood may drop a bit. (I've been close friends with A. for many years and I've noticed that he manages to get through a stressful event - e.g. when his Mum died - and then sort of collapses afterwards). He sees about making complaint about her actions next week which I hope will give him something to get his teeth into.

Is there anyone with any advice for people who have been for this horribly traumatic experience and have had charges dropped. Did anyone continue to feel anxious and depressed as well as feeling happy?

Jen x

Great news! Be prepared for a whole gamut of emotions; joy at the NFA; confusion as to what happened; anger; depression as he thinks "I could be inside now" .....; weeping with laughter and/sadness at the same time; "Why me???"..........

If he thinks he is going mad - he's not. It is perfectly natural to go through a variety of emotions and then go through them all again.

Once he has settled down he will need to see if the allegation lies on his ECRB check.

[allatsea]

That is such fantastic news for both of you - and did someone else say there was another today? On top of my son's NFA yesterday this seems to be turning into a good news week.

allatsea

[Casehardened]

Great news for you both, very well deserved too as you yourself have been so supportive of others despite your own worries

[0990]

thats great news for you both , im so glad for you

[largactyl1]

Thankyou so much for your kind comments and advice people

[witsend]

thats great news. There may be some rough times ahead, as we have found out with our son just be aware that it may not be plain sailing. Let us know how things go.