motorman

[motorman]

the day is getting closer of going back to the police station i am in bits i just want my life back,i just want to be me again any imformtion would be good just need help

[Casehardened]

Do you have to actually go back to the station to answer your bail? I was 'lucky' as my OIC used to ring up the day before to say I didn't have to go as I was being rebailed; of course all that meant if she was late in ringing I started to sweat as I then thought I was going to be charged

[motorman]

yes every time i just want it over with im inacent and should not have to go though this they should see that its my daughter and that she is a drama queen i would of give my life for her dont understand any more please help

[motorman]

would be possible to pm someone as need more imformation

[witsend]

Hi there. question for you.. have you seen your GP regarding what is going on? You really do need to if you have not done so already. We all try to battle on while dealing with an ordeal like this, but most find it nigh on impossible. your physical well-being suffers so much, don't sleep or eat can't concentrate and everything turn to blind panic. Please try to stay calm (not easy I know). Have you tried speaking to the Samartians?????

[Rights Fighter]

Just re-read your posts. It seems that for whatever reason they want you gone.

You won't go of your own volition so they may well have rung the police saying you were drink driving, in the hope that you were.

When that didn't work your daughter made her allegations. It looks like the ploy has worked as you are no longer at the house (I assume?)

If this matter is NFA'd you need to be aware that anybody you are in touch with who has children under the age of 16 could be approached by the police or SS. Being NFA'd does not mean no crime was committed.

You will know that none was in your case, but there are cases where people are guilty as sin, and they are NFA'd, which is why CPU and SS will step in. It really depends on the circumstances of the NFA.

[motorman]

no not done either of those have really good support of a few friends who are keeping me strong the best they can.i just need to know how much longer do i have to go through this and when is it going to end and how

[motorman]

to R F

You are 150% right in what you are saying, as to what i have seen during this situation, find it absolutely outragous to the things that they have been doing so much, of a shame i gave them everything what ever they wanted i ply myself with so much work making myself ill in the process to get them what ever was wanted. After all i did for them i never expected any of this. The hurt is so much

[Saffron]

Hi Motorman

In response to your question about how long this will go on for, the simple answer is that no-one really knows. Some people have been NFAd or charged very quickly, and some are kept on bail for months and months.

I'm glad you have a strong support network, that is invaluable. Unfortunately, you are in limbo, and will be until your case is either NFAd or you are charged. The waiting is tough, but hang in there.

Saffron

[motorman]

hi i have just been rebailed again but the police say that the cps have had report back and saying that there is not enough evidence to charge me but i still have been bailed following further enquiries

[Rights Fighter]

MM

No matter how hard you have worked, given/bought them things, or whatever, if for some reason they want you gone, and if you do not go, some people will do whatever it takes to have you removed permanently.

Therefore if you have not gone of your own volition then they will make false allegations to ensure your removal.

If this goes to trial you can use this as a motive. If you can show no strong motive then a conviction if more likely.

All you can do is to go with the flow at the moment. One can rebailed for well over a year. Not a pleasant prospect I know.

[motorman]

so confused

please really need help on this really dont understand why if cps dont have enough evidence to charge why am i still bailed

[Saffron]

MM

It could be that plod are hoping you will "crack under pressure" and confess to your "crimes". We have a member here who was accused, arrested, interviewed and bailed, only for his accuser to tell the police soon afterwards that she didn't want to proceed with the case. It still took months before he finally got notification of the NFA. Or they may be hoping that other "victims" will come forward....the more people who claim you have "assaulted" them, the stronger the case for the CPS.

The "Creature" that accused my husband rang the police a week after the allegation and said she "couldn't be sure" that she had been raped. However the police chose not to tell my hubby this for 14 weeks!!!

So in a nutshell, your situation is not that uncommon. I know that doesn't make it any easier for you to deal with, but hang in there. You have a good support network, which is worth its weight in gold. And of course, we are all here for you too.

Saffron

[motorman]

help

CPS TOLD POLICE OFFICER not enough evidence to warrent a charge need to do further enquires what does this mean plz help

[Rights Fighter]

I see you left your email address on my support site forum guest book. I have emailed you.