Hi everyone - I have stumbled across this site today and reading through various posts it seems incredible that I'm not on my own - it would seem so many people are accused wrongly.
Brief overview of circumstances is that my daughter aged 14 had a friend (that came from a very unhappy abusive family) she had regulary stayed at our house over a 4/5 year period. In Dec 2008 the following happened:
She accused my husband of coming back downstairs after he went to bed and touching her - she was actually asleep on a blow up airbed with an attached sleeping bag with my daughter next to her!!
The following afternoon after I woke them up, she told my daughter he did this - (despite being fast asleep when I got up at 6.30 - I woke the pair of them up at 1.00pm - )
She told her she didnt want her to say anything and just forget it - my daughter did come and tell me and I immediately went to speak to her and she told me he had done this and she just wanted to forget it!!
I offered to take her home and speak to her mum which she said no to, I then offered to call the police which she also said no to - she kept saying she just wanted to forget it
I went to tell my husband what she had said and he was horrified
By the time I went back upstairs to see what was going on they were both on phones and msn laughing and joking and arranging another night out at an under 18's club and arranging to stay at different friends houses.
They then told me they were hungry and asked me to order them a pizza -
As you can understand I was completely fazed as none of these actions represented a girl that had been through what she had alleged earlier.
This girl spent all day in my house and then said she couldnt get a lift to the other friends house and would I mind dropping her off when i dropped my daughter at the other friends!!
I did this, tried to talk to her again and she still said she just wanted to forget it!
2 days later she sent my daughter a text saying she had told her mum - I made my husband phone the police as I could see everything getting out of hand.
Statements were taken from the 3 of us and the CPS took 11 months to decide to charge him -
They sent the bed and all her clothing away for DNA - guess what none was found and she was not medically examined either!
My daughter and I were called as prosecution witnesses, my original statement had been changed in the typing up and then the prosecutor turned on us in her summing up and said we were hostile witnesses that had made a story up to cover for my husband - which is totally untrue
Case finished at Crown Court 3 weeks ago and he was unbelievably found guilty of sexual activity with a child aged 14 by penetration. The judge has given him 6 weeks bail before sentencing (we dont understand this as it has been said with a guilty verdict and that charge theres no way he should have been given bail) but told him he will be sentencing within the guidelines.
Solicitors and barrister working on lodging an appeal but our whole world has fallen down.
I am so scared he is going to get hurt in prison and have no idea how I am going to cope
Can anyone offer any advice on appeals and what should he take to court with him when he goes back for sentencing?
Thank you -
Brief overview of circumstances is that my daughter aged 14 had a friend (that came from a very unhappy abusive family) she had regulary stayed at our house over a 4/5 year period. In Dec 2008 the following happened:
She accused my husband of coming back downstairs after he went to bed and touching her - she was actually asleep on a blow up airbed with an attached sleeping bag with my daughter next to her!!
The following afternoon after I woke them up, she told my daughter he did this - (despite being fast asleep when I got up at 6.30 - I woke the pair of them up at 1.00pm - )
She told her she didnt want her to say anything and just forget it - my daughter did come and tell me and I immediately went to speak to her and she told me he had done this and she just wanted to forget it!!
I offered to take her home and speak to her mum which she said no to, I then offered to call the police which she also said no to - she kept saying she just wanted to forget it
I went to tell my husband what she had said and he was horrified
By the time I went back upstairs to see what was going on they were both on phones and msn laughing and joking and arranging another night out at an under 18's club and arranging to stay at different friends houses.
They then told me they were hungry and asked me to order them a pizza -
As you can understand I was completely fazed as none of these actions represented a girl that had been through what she had alleged earlier.
This girl spent all day in my house and then said she couldnt get a lift to the other friends house and would I mind dropping her off when i dropped my daughter at the other friends!!
I did this, tried to talk to her again and she still said she just wanted to forget it!
2 days later she sent my daughter a text saying she had told her mum - I made my husband phone the police as I could see everything getting out of hand.
Statements were taken from the 3 of us and the CPS took 11 months to decide to charge him -
They sent the bed and all her clothing away for DNA - guess what none was found and she was not medically examined either!
My daughter and I were called as prosecution witnesses, my original statement had been changed in the typing up and then the prosecutor turned on us in her summing up and said we were hostile witnesses that had made a story up to cover for my husband - which is totally untrue
Case finished at Crown Court 3 weeks ago and he was unbelievably found guilty of sexual activity with a child aged 14 by penetration. The judge has given him 6 weeks bail before sentencing (we dont understand this as it has been said with a guilty verdict and that charge theres no way he should have been given bail) but told him he will be sentencing within the guidelines.
Solicitors and barrister working on lodging an appeal but our whole world has fallen down.
I am so scared he is going to get hurt in prison and have no idea how I am going to cope
Can anyone offer any advice on appeals and what should he take to court with him when he goes back for sentencing?
Thank you -
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