Help - my son

[allatsea]

Landlady,

I saw your thread and felt for you. My son has been rebailed for another four weeks - his 'file' is with the CPS and we will know soon whether he is to be charged. I have put him on a plane this week back to where he is staying. We had hoped it would all be finished with by now. How these girls/women can accuse our young men on what seems to a whim (morning after regret/spite/alibi) goes beyond me. The girl that has accused my son seems to be thriving on the attention, and either doesn't realise what she is doing to all of us or doesn't care. Like you I feel hatred for and wish terrible things on this girl - I hope that the power of my emotions will have a physical effect on her life. Irrational, I know, but I keep hoping it will work. I think about her every day. Even if my son's case is NFA'd I know that I will still think about this girl every day for the rest of my life - and that is not a nice thought. Sorry. Seem to be having a bad day today,
allatsea

[0990]

you not alone having these type of thoughts it affects the whole family of someone who has been accused ,
the simple fact is the women who make these accusations do so because the punishment for false accusations are not perused often enough through the system to work as a deterrent,
it seems having your case nfa is enough for you in the eyes of the law,

[landlady]

Landlady,

I saw your thread and felt for you. My son has been rebailed for another four weeks - his 'file' is with the CPS and we will know soon whether he is to be charged. I have put him on a plane this week back to where he is staying. We had hoped it would all be finished with by now. How these girls/women can accuse our young men on what seems to a whim (morning after regret/spite/alibi) goes beyond me. The girl that has accused my son seems to be thriving on the attention, and either doesn't realise what she is doing to all of us or doesn't care. Like you I feel hatred for and wish terrible things on this girl - I hope that the power of my emotions will have a physical effect on her life. Irrational, I know, but I keep hoping it will work. I think about her every day. Even if my son's case is NFA'd I know that I will still think about this girl every day for the rest of my life - and that is not a nice thought. Sorry. Seem to be having a bad day today,
allatsea

allatsea,
please don't appologise for your pain. i do understand that even the most loving placid god fearing person would wish hurt on who ever did this to our sons. my night times are the worst. it doesn't help that we live in a small village pub and everyone knows! its like living in a shop window. i'l think of you and your family in my prayers tonight. please keep in touch as i know how it is to be in "bail limbo" my son had 9 months of it. it really is so painfull right now but we both know we have to be strong for our loved ones. take care xxx

[allatsea]

Landlady,

thank you. Everyone feels pain when their loved ones are hurting, but I think it tears a mother's heart apart when her child is hurt,

allatsea

[witsend]

Would like to say I have to agree!!!! The hurt and pain doesn't go away even when a case is NFA'd. Since our sons case was dropped we have had so may problems with him trying to deal with what happened that it's unbearable at times. I know where this b---h lives and it has taken an awful lot of will power not to go and give her, at the very least, a piece of my mind. Please all stay strong, thinking of you

[allatsea]

At last!

NO FURTHER ACTION

Sorry - just had to shout it. Officially, today. Thank you everone for your support on here. You have kept me strong so I could be strong for my son.

allatsea

[Rights Fighter]

Brilliant! Fantastic news!!!

[Casehardened]

What super news for you & your son, of course it should have never got this far but at least you got the right result in the end

[Midnight and Worried]

I'm so very pleased for you and your Son,your nightmare is finally over.

Fantastic news !!

As your Son's case seems very similar to my Grandson it does give me a little hope,once again so pleased for you.

[RFLH]

that is brilliant - I'm so pleased for you all.

[Shatteredhusband]

Fantastic news. These positive outcomes make such a huge difference to the morale of us falsely accused still going through it.

Well done to you and your son, now you can start to rebuild his life.

[allatsea]

Thank you all. I won't desert this forum. If our story can give a ray of hope to others going through the same....

allatsea

[friday]

amazing news! glad to hear you will be sticking around. the criminal proceedings may be over but the pain will probably stick around for some time. don't be afraid to moan/rant/ask for support whenever you need to.

[LS]

Brilliant news, allatsea.

[Saffron]

So happy to hear this great news, and I am very glad we were able to be of some help. I hope you and your son can now put this behind you and start to heal