Hi all
I'll keep this to the point and as brief as possible.
Essentially 3 years ago I was an instructor in the Aircadets. Whilst there I started to go down hill a bit with drinking and due to being an it contractor I spent 2 months looking for work and generally being down. The ex also ended with me around that time. So all in all not looking good.
Anyway I was friendly with a female cadet (>16 years old), and regrettably tried it on with her one night. She said no, and asked me to take her home, which I did.
After the event I apologised and she accepted and I thought that was end of story.
Alas 2 weeks later I get suspended from the ATC due to that incident, and 3 months later I got sacked. (Police were involved at the time, but as nothing really happened they gave the case back to the cadets to deal with).
So I accepted the decision, got a new job and sorted out my life.
Until December last year when I am arrested for raping her!!
I had the Solicitor with me and gave my version of events on that night. When the police told me what she said it changed completely from 3 years ago. Everything she said in the original complaint was just about me behaving inappropriately by trying it on, nothing to do with rape. Also all of this info was take by the police at the time, and the air cadets also have a copy of the report.
As part of the investigation they took my computer, and the bail was 6 months, due up at the end of this month.
Are there any thoughts on how this might play out as I am starting to get worried a lot! (there is nothing on my pc), but worried they will take it further.
What is also odd is that I hear nothing for so long, I then did some music for my old Squadron last November as a favour, then 2 weeks later I get arrested. Wonder if that's her reasoning! According to facebook she is totally loving life!!! I also have mutual friends who can state she is an attention seeker, which is what seems to be happening here.
I did not even come remotely close to having sex with her!
I'll keep this to the point and as brief as possible.
Essentially 3 years ago I was an instructor in the Aircadets. Whilst there I started to go down hill a bit with drinking and due to being an it contractor I spent 2 months looking for work and generally being down. The ex also ended with me around that time. So all in all not looking good.
Anyway I was friendly with a female cadet (>16 years old), and regrettably tried it on with her one night. She said no, and asked me to take her home, which I did.
After the event I apologised and she accepted and I thought that was end of story.
Alas 2 weeks later I get suspended from the ATC due to that incident, and 3 months later I got sacked. (Police were involved at the time, but as nothing really happened they gave the case back to the cadets to deal with).
So I accepted the decision, got a new job and sorted out my life.
Until December last year when I am arrested for raping her!!
I had the Solicitor with me and gave my version of events on that night. When the police told me what she said it changed completely from 3 years ago. Everything she said in the original complaint was just about me behaving inappropriately by trying it on, nothing to do with rape. Also all of this info was take by the police at the time, and the air cadets also have a copy of the report.
As part of the investigation they took my computer, and the bail was 6 months, due up at the end of this month.
Are there any thoughts on how this might play out as I am starting to get worried a lot! (there is nothing on my pc), but worried they will take it further.
What is also odd is that I hear nothing for so long, I then did some music for my old Squadron last November as a favour, then 2 weeks later I get arrested. Wonder if that's her reasoning! According to facebook she is totally loving life!!! I also have mutual friends who can state she is an attention seeker, which is what seems to be happening here.
I did not even come remotely close to having sex with her!
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