Life In Tatters

[gareth589]

Hi Witsend,

Thank you for private message and support. I do fully accept how your son will be coping and dealing with his fears and emotions. It's strange but each human being copes differently and this is what makes us unique. I have started to research stats and findings about victims that are falsely accused. I have written to my local mp asking for detailed findings on government rules concerning what seems to be a vert very dark area. I don't think as a individual I will make a difference but if I can have this raised in the house of commons I will of got my goal.

I hope your son can take on board that all is not lost and that he must be strong and brave. Never be afraid to say I'm scared. Christ I broke down to my mum.
Your son should take comfort that people on this site do really understand what he is going through. Sadly we are all victims one way or another but 6 months ago would I off thought I would be posting here. Never, I have many failings done and continue to mess up lose the people I love through my own issues, but now I have a chance to make life better not feel everyone owes me a penny. I will stand by and support any genuine victim and help, I would love to join the team and help and in time would relish the chance. Give your son a hug and tell him from me I'm thinking of him and all the others.

Christ feel all emotional must be going soft in ok'd age.

Gareth.

[RFLH]

Gareth if you didn't cry - that's the time to feel worried!

Its good to see you posting so positively and helping others, thank you.

[witsend]

thanks

Gareth
Thankyou so very much for your kind words, they mean a lot to me and my family. Stay strong, yep I know it's hard, so very hard at times. Keep in touch to let us know how you are doing.

[Shatteredhusband]

Gareth

I read your story and am so glad that it ended so well for you. These positive stories help to keep me optimistic that things may well turn out Ok.

Despite your own personal nightmare being over four weeks ago, you still find the time, strength and courage to support new members like me. Your advice on my thread was much appreciated.

Well done!

[shocked...]

Congratulations Gareth! I feel so happy for you! I bet its like the world has been lifted from your shoulders and now you can recover!

[LibbyR]

Just spent the last hour reading this thread, I'm pleased that your outcome was the right one and I hope you are rebuilding your life. Your terrible journey is one that has just begun for my son, we are angry and scared and have no faith in the system.

[gareth589]

Its nice to see my thread does help people, Libby i have responded on your thread and just wanted to say hello to the Mods, and nice to see some old faces still on the circuit.

I do find it tough to come back on and offer support to people as its taken me a long time to work through the demons i faced. I got closure a few weeks ago, when i bumped into the ex friend who did his best to stitch me up, i wanted to hit years ago, but when i saw jim, I felt pitty shook his hand and said all the best.

Felt great as the fear in his face said it all.

To those that read my thread, have faith and be strong

[Faith]

Excellent post, thanks Gareth. Glad that you have closure as such and happy that your meeting with this creature was more daunting to him than you.
You behaved in exactly the right way. Hold your head high

[gareth589]

Thanks Faith

All i can say to people that are in a mess, keep it simple, dont give up, and be strong.

[RFLH]

good to see you Gareth. I'm not surprised that you don't want to post, so don't worry about it!

Keep on moving on, you're doing it brilliantly and with dignity.

[Saffron]

Good to see you Gareth. I'm pleased that you are so level-headed. That takes a huge amount of courage, so you ought to be extremely proud of yourself!

[gareth589]

Thanks all for the support, reading some of the posts brings it all back and i can still feel the pain i went through. Its nice to respond to help, i have actively been supporting Falsely Accused People in the Southwest and have worked very hard to support victims and also genuine victims of rape in the Courts.