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Hi lookman05,
It's good that you don't want to play on your army background by wearing your service dress and LS makes a very valid point in that it might wind up anyone on the jury who, shall we say, is ethnically diverse (OTOH, if it ever gets that far, it would be perfectly valid for your barrister to bump them on those very grounds)
However, look on this event as a war which you have to win and therefore you need to use all the weapons that you have.
As I said, I don't see this going anywhere, but you need to be prepared. To me your soldiers background and your service experiences in Afganistan are a valid reason for going out with your mates to unwind by having a few beers, and perhaps unwisely having a bit too much to drink and therefore allowing yourself to get into a situation which you would normally avoid (by this I mean a threesome in a room which I suppose was at the root of the girl making a complaint)
It's not unusual to feel suicidal, as many of us will confirm, but don't give up, stay focused, look on this as another mission you have to get through.
It's good that you don't want to play on your army background by wearing your service dress and LS makes a very valid point in that it might wind up anyone on the jury who, shall we say, is ethnically diverse (OTOH, if it ever gets that far, it would be perfectly valid for your barrister to bump them on those very grounds)
However, look on this event as a war which you have to win and therefore you need to use all the weapons that you have.
As I said, I don't see this going anywhere, but you need to be prepared. To me your soldiers background and your service experiences in Afganistan are a valid reason for going out with your mates to unwind by having a few beers, and perhaps unwisely having a bit too much to drink and therefore allowing yourself to get into a situation which you would normally avoid (by this I mean a threesome in a room which I suppose was at the root of the girl making a complaint)
It's not unusual to feel suicidal, as many of us will confirm, but don't give up, stay focused, look on this as another mission you have to get through.
. If needs be PLEASE go and speak to your BSM and explain how you are feeling, if you don't think that is an option how about your welfare office or SAFA? If you want someone impartial ring the Samaritans. Thinking of you, and sending you a prayer
for your kind words. Always remember you most definitely are not alone. Sometimes it beggars belief the number of people, and the awful situations they have found themselves, that find their way here. Just glad you found your way here, keep coming back and stay strong
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