My ex has been accused of raping someone 4 years ago, help needed please

[LS]

That's what you call service! I'll come again.

[RFLH]

well done RF! Save a glass or several for me!!

[suzybe]

Ha Ha! Forced/made to drink it indeed!
It was a great help to meet you, and very enjoyable lunch, so nice to find help nearby too, and that "real" people are out there.
And suggestions that I will follow through. We will not be beaten.

[suzybe]

And can anyone tell me if I can alter the title of my thread? I missed the M out in someone when they key stuck!

[Rights Fighter]

I think that only a mod can do that and I am sure one will when they read your post!

Yep it was a great afternoon and not all of it spent in angst as is usually the case. Well actually, none of it was!

And thanks for the lovely flowers - they are in my front room brightening the place up

Hopefully we will meet up again soon.

[LS]

The title's been corrected for you, Suzybe. Glad to help.

[suzybe]

Update on bail hearings

Update, for the third time, the bail hearing has been extended. We were told on a Sunday morning, 24 hours before the next bail date.
Now extended till late September, to allow a specialist lawyer to consider the facts at the CPS. I assume, this means that a "normal" lawyer found nothing worthy of proceeding, ie no real facts/evidence. Has anyone else had this happen?

[Rights Fighter]

Hi Suzybe!

The specialist will probably decide whether there is enough "evidence" to proceed.

For you own sanity I do wish this matter would grind to a complete halt and you can stop playing "mummy" to somebody who does not appreciate your efforts.

We must meet up soon when you have time x

[Saffron]

Hi Suzybe
Thanks for the update. Sadly this is not so unusual and all you can do is wait. Fingers crossed that you hear good news soon.
Saffron

[suzybe]

Thank you Saffron and Rights Fighter. stress level even higher, what an awful time with the wait,and the paranoia is getting worse. Of course, the whole family suffer.
Hope everyone else are progressing as well as possible
Sue