My son

[Casehardened]

Dear Suzybe

Some OIC’s are more conscientious than others, really it would only be common courtesy to make a couple of phone calls the day before, one to the CPS & then one to your ex re. the rebail.

On the other hand the fact that the police had obviously completely forgotten about it augurs well; if the case was a ‘live’ one its unlikely they would have forgotten the bail date.

[suzybe]

Dear Case Hardened,

Many thanks, that's what I thought too.
Whilst my ex is off sick for quite a while with stress from all this, I am self employed, and have just lost my main client due to taking so much time away from work to be with him, as he feels suicidal, so the effect of all this is far reaching, meanwhile this scorned woman is rubbing her hands with glee, at the trouble she is causing, whilst staying anonymous.
Sue

[worriedfather]

it was a bail condition for him being released from remand. he cant see his disabled brother, i have nothing but contempt for the police and the cps who have put us through this, i think that i have more disgust for them than his accuser as they were too lazy and incompetent to do their job properly. i read through the "evidence" that they had gathered ad tore it to bits. i can only hope that when their kids are older they get treated the same because only then will they realise what they have put all of us through

[LS]

Worriedfather, that is entirely normal and I completely understand. The rage one feels for those who did nothing to help, overshadows the original accuser. If anything, the authorities are supposed to be the first and last "line of defence" against spurious allegations, yet in the last decade that seems to have changed.

[suzybe]

Worried Father,

Oh I am so sorry to hear that, his Brother must be really missing him too.
Why cant the accuser's be banned from the area too? it works both ways, and they are the one's causing this stress and heartache, after all, it must be an awful shock for the "victim" of false rape claims to see the female who is causing all this.
I have found, with the local police, and problems I had with domestic violence, some were brilliant, and an odd one or two made me feel like the criminal, the worst one was a female officer, I can imagine, if the bad ones are the one's dealing with false claims, that the victim is going to have a rough ride, and total injustice. As you say, if their kids were going through this, it would be a different story.
I am trying to find out some information on the woman at the centre of my ex's problem, but cannot find anything on the internet, these days, most people can be found. Would be interesting to find out something though, especially where she lives, to avoid going anywhere near there!.
Fingers crossed for you.
Suzy.

[goldfish]

It must be hard for your sons and the rest of your family in this situation. I feel for you all. Initially due to my work my husband couldn't live at the same address so he voluntarilly moved out for a while. It was awfull we couldn't cope even though he wasn't far away. I couldn't concentrate on my job so decided to put it on hold after I realised it was more important to have my husband at home and support him, even though he'd let me down by getting involved with the woman who is accusing him. You don't have this choice. Your son is fortunate to have a father who is fully committed to supporting him. I know my husband and I have depended on each other to get through this so far. It's difficult.
My husband's accuser lives very close by and we have often wondered why he has still been able to live where we are after reading some other threads. He is not allowed to come into contact with her obviously but we see or hear about her quite often. I dread walking into the local shop in case she's there.

[Saffron]

Often enduring an ordeal like this actually brings us closer together. I knw that me and R are stronger than before because of this. I hope the same happens to you.

[worriedfather]

i have seen my sons accuser around once or twice. she has never seen me or i am sure plod would have been round as i was "harassing" her. she was quite happy and smiling and chatting away to her friends.
Had a letter from the cps, i made a complaint and they replied that it would not be appropriate to comment on the questions i have raised until after the trial. it comes across as very smug. How i want to stop them being smug. These people have no idea of the notion of justice, it is all a numbers game with them, more than 30% chance of conviction and we will fix the evidence to get a conviction. does not matter if the accuser has lied before. still i will not stop fighting my sons corner and i intend to make them squirm when this is all over

[worriedfather]

rights fighter please can you drop me a line i need some advice please

[Rights Fighter]

I have sent you a PM via this site.

[worriedfather]

Spoke to the sol today and he told me that plod has not had any of the physical evidence tested, the only bit that they had tested proved to be evidence that my son can use as it supports his case.
i cannot understand how this got past the cps considering that they are only supposed to prosecute cases that they have a chance of winning, nearly all of the forensics supports my son.
how can they do this? do they think they will get away with this? i can only hope that our mps make these people accountable!
my son had a good day yesterday, we went gliding, he enjoyed it once he overcame his fear of heights.

[Rights Fighter]

A case I attempted to get to appeal relates to the same sort of thing.

According to the accuser DNA would have been found on the floor, cushions and on the def's trousers. As she reported her allegations very quickly after the last alleged offence the police were able to go to the def's house and ...........failed to examine the floor and the trousers. They took the cushions and then failed to have them forensically examined.

According to the grandmother of the accuser she (accuser) was also "covered in semen". Her clothes were handed to the police in bags and guess what? They were not tested either.

Apparently this is all perfectly OK and despite all that - there are no grounds with which to appeal the convictions.

Expect dirty dealings - then you will not be shocked or disappointed at some police officers lack of scruples.

[worriedfather]

Had a reply from the PM, he is a bit concerned about the amount of false accusations and has redirected my letter to the home office and the Ministry of justice. Now to write more letters !
I cannot understand how the CPS think they can win in court when they have no forensic evidence that supports their case. They must understand that they will be slaughtered in court by my sons barrister.
I dont think they quite comprehend that once this is finished, i will go after them for putting me on anti-depressants and for them being **** at their job. I have team leaders who could have done a better job than plod at investigating!

[Rights Fighter]

I hope the Crown really IS "slaughtered" by your son's barrister but please do not assume that the jury will take any notice. Do not get complacent but work hard on the defence case.

I am supporting guys in prison and their families where the jury have heard all sorts of lies and massive inconsistencies but STILL they have gone on to convict.

Hopefully the matter will be dropped long before it goes to trial.

[Rights Fighter]

Had a reply from the PM..........

Do you mean MP?