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just an update on how things are going for me.
since been wrongly accused on the 16th i had to go live with my brother and his partner over 60 miles away. i was coping and getting by. i had agreed along with social services that i would keep to their guide which was to only have contact with my children when supervised and that i was not to stay under the same roof as them at all. I delt with this knowing it wouldnt be long for this mess to get sorted out. My solicitor had told me it was know just a waiting game. Then i got a call saying it was unsafe for me to be at that address. My family sorted it for me to leave stright away but it ment moving further away to my other brothers as this was the only family i had left were i couldnt b found. I phoned my solicitor and told him and he instructed me to phone social services which i did, all the said was that there were no reasons i couldnt move and it was up to me if i wanted to pass onto them my new address.
So i moved the next day and phoned the social services with my new address. then we got an unannounced call at the door from the local services stating that i couldnt live here due to there being a child under 16 at the address. I was not told this before i moved and why is it they werent interested that much where i was but as soon as they knew they said i couldnt live their. It seems to me like the beleive that what they dont know wont hurt. I was also told that even when/if im cleared (WHICH I WILL BE) that services could be involved upto my kids reaching 16, my youngest is 3 and i could still be put on the sex offenders register for 2 years. I find this so wrong am i alone??????
Any advice or reply would be very helpfull
since been wrongly accused on the 16th i had to go live with my brother and his partner over 60 miles away. i was coping and getting by. i had agreed along with social services that i would keep to their guide which was to only have contact with my children when supervised and that i was not to stay under the same roof as them at all. I delt with this knowing it wouldnt be long for this mess to get sorted out. My solicitor had told me it was know just a waiting game. Then i got a call saying it was unsafe for me to be at that address. My family sorted it for me to leave stright away but it ment moving further away to my other brothers as this was the only family i had left were i couldnt b found. I phoned my solicitor and told him and he instructed me to phone social services which i did, all the said was that there were no reasons i couldnt move and it was up to me if i wanted to pass onto them my new address.
So i moved the next day and phoned the social services with my new address. then we got an unannounced call at the door from the local services stating that i couldnt live here due to there being a child under 16 at the address. I was not told this before i moved and why is it they werent interested that much where i was but as soon as they knew they said i couldnt live their. It seems to me like the beleive that what they dont know wont hurt. I was also told that even when/if im cleared (WHICH I WILL BE) that services could be involved upto my kids reaching 16, my youngest is 3 and i could still be put on the sex offenders register for 2 years. I find this so wrong am i alone??????
Any advice or reply would be very helpfull
By saying i know i will i tell myself everythings going to be o.k. i have to stay positive and this is one way of doing so. I have just been informed now by social services that i indeed do not need to move from where i am and that they see no reason i cannot be under the same roof as a minor. why do the keep on moving the goal posts so to speak.
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