falsely accused. need help

[goldfish]

Hi Viva

Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and your family also. As the wife of someone accused I can sympathise with the strain you and your wife must be under. There are days when we do nothing but go over every thing time and time again, trying to work out the possible outcome and not knowing what the future is going to be is absolutely hell for both of us. If I don't talk much or go quiet for a while my husband worries about me and what I'm thinking and I worry about him. We have both had alot of down days.
We have tried to take time out for ourselves, going for a meal, the cinema and even the occasional night away can help. Allowing us to forget for a while or discuss things without interruptions has been good.
We have a number of children and like you a pre school child so know how the strains of everyday life can get to you and how difficult it can be to try and keep normality for the sake of the children. It's my children and knowing that my husband is a good dad that keeps me going. Never give up.

[viva]

Didnt know the best way to start this but>>> Just had a call from OIC and he says the cps have cleared me as there is NO evidence at all and when the accuser was asked if she wanted to take it to court on her word against mine she declined. 1 day before i was due to answer bail whooooooo. im so emotional its hard to write. BIG THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO POSTED ON MY THREAD AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU
I may be of line for a while,(got lots to sort out) but i will be back on.

[Rights Fighter]

BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT!

[RFLH]

Hurray - that's two!!!!!!!!

Let's hope there's more to come.

[0990]

im so glad it all came good in the end for you , having been in the same situation from december i followed your posts . i had mine nfa start of april , hope you can move on from this , you did nothing wrong

[Saffron]

Fantastic news, I am so pleased for you!
thank you for letting us know, it gives many others hope.
I hope you can now put this terrible ordeal behind you.
BIG HUGS!!!

[Casehardened]

This is great news, well done for keeping going throughout these last months.

'Today is the first day of the rest of your life'

[LS]

Fantastic news Viva. Congratulations! Now take a break and get used to that weight not being on your shoulders......

[goldfish]

Brilliant news! The sense of relief must be overwhelming. I wish you and your family all the best in re building your lives.

[friday]

fantastic news!

[viva]

Thanks all for the messages, and thanks for the support through it all.
The last few days have been amazing, having my kids jumpin all over me in a morning is something ive missed so much.
since been cleared of all accusations ive not sat still for 1 minute its been so emotional (i cried for a whole day).
Ive had lots of messages from friends and family and even had a suprise visit from my sister who lives miles away.
Theres still a lot going on, we (my wife and i) have not heard a thing from her mum, dad or "sister" and we just dont know whats goin on, its like now its all been swept under the carpet and i feel injust, like there is more to this and i should be doing something, the lieing little evil is till walking round as though nothings happend and her mum n dad have not said a word to anyone.
I dont know if theres anymore i can do but i dont think she should just get away with what shes done.
anyway ill update you if any more news comes to light.

[RFLH]

Thanks for that viva - concentrate on those that matter for the time being and enjoy life again.

When you're ready to come out fighting, come back and we'll see if we can do anything, can't say as there will be much - but we can try!

[viva]

im trying to but its eating away at me inside thinking of whats been said "back home". i want to try and act quick so to speak to try and rescue my name from being dragged through the gutter any more.
It feels so wrong that i could have been sent to prison for a crime fabricated in a twisted mind but yet she gets to walk free as though nothings happened and is infact bragging about it.

[Casehardened]

The important thing is that 'justice was done' and hopefully this will apply to her as well in that 'what goes around comes around'

You'll need a couple of months before you'll really unwind and feel more relaxed about it. If it's possible try to go away with the family for a holiday.

[viva]

Hi again.
Its been 3 weeks now since i was cleared of the false allegations against me and although the worst is over i still feel like im being held back.
Things are strange at the moment as we havent heard a word from my wifes family (mum,dad,sisters or brother), we have spoke to other members of her family who also say nothing has been said,
Its like nothing ever happened and i feel this is wrong as she should somehow be punished for the evil lies she has told.
Im built up with anger i thought would die but its just eating me up inside like i need to do something and feel everyone should know what she has put me and my family through.
weve lost family & friends had to move out of our house and move miles from where we belong, ive lost my job
the whole thing has cost us thousands of pounds to say the least, but most of all its just wrong if nowt is done to her.
is there anything else can be done?