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    we want to let you know what has been happeneing in our sons case. Basically he was asked to go to the police station last weekend - when he got there (we were there too!), the policewoman took him in and after 10 minutes came out to us with our son and told us what was happening - our son was no longer a suspect, he was not being charged with anything- he was now a witness for the prosecution, although they couldnt go into the nature of the charge except it was very serious. He gave a 8 page statement and as we left the policewoman came to us and told us they had always known there was something not right, but because he had been accused they had had to interview him - she said we should go home, try to relax, we had nothing to worry about.

    next thing - our son gets a phone call from same policewoman (must admit, she HAS been good throughout this), saying she was just letting him know that the girl was being arrested and charged under caution ! At this point we were told our son would have to give evidence as a witness in the case.

    Anyway, the initial hearing at the magistrates court is on Monday, then obviously i understand it would go to crown court.

    However, the best news i think is this - the police are using him as a "witness" - Anyway, they said his name should not initially be read out as he is just down as a witness statement - as is his friend who was with him that night. It then transpires that the charge is of perverting the course of justice - it is in relation to a false accusation of rape - AGAINST ANOTHER MAN! And although she then went onto accuse our son too, he is being used as a witness to prove their case in that she also falsely acused him too - but he is not the initial "victim" in this story - apparently the other false accusation happened before our son met her but she then added him onto her "hit list".

    We cant believe the turn of events and how this is developing every day - we also realsie we are lucky it is happening so fast - especially after hearing your experiences.

    Our son seems much happier after today .

    Thank you to you all for ongoing support and advice (Mayflower, Rights Fighter - thank you!). Still cant believe this has happened to us - we are a normal boring family - and we will never complain again about our boring lives.


    worried mam and dad

  • #2
    That is the most fantastic news No Longer Worried Mam and Dad!

    I'm really pleased to read this. I hope all goes smoothly for you and your son from now on.

    I shall look forward to adding her to the list of liars.

    Thank you for letting us know and givving a chink of hope to others reading.
    And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world. Then made the world round .... and laughed and laughed and laughed ..

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    • #3
      Brilliant, brilliant and doubly/triply brilliant!

      Keep coming back to update us and also don't forget, you will be going through all sorts of emotions and not all of them good. For instance you will feel anger towards the accuser for putting you and your lad through this. You might feel you don't know where to turn as you feel the anger surge - so come back and tell us. You will find it is quite therapeutic just writing it down and sharing.

      People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

      PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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      • #4
        I am sooooo pleased for you - your nightmare is over and justice is being done. As RF said, this could still be a traumatic experience for you all, so do keep coming back and updating us.

        Hugs

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        • #5
          Thank you all so much for you support, i feel that we have gone to hell and back.
          At this momment i feel that i want to find this this girl and do some damage to her for what she has done. I feel so much HATE and yet so HAPPY

          thank you all again

          worried dad.

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          • #6
            Getting her prosecuted and put inside is one form of revenge. Hopefully she will be named and shamed in the press as well.

            Feeling hate and feeling happy is pretty much par for course as your feelings will be mixed and confusing for you. Keep coming back for support during this time.

            Don't put yourself in the position of being prosecuted for assault yourself - she's not worth it.
            People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

            PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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            • #7
              Oh thats one thing im not going to do, i will not give her the satisfaction of causeing more missery on this family.
              I wish that the judges would take into account the pain and missery that these people cause to the falsly accused and make there sentence a heck of a lot longer and not just 2/3 years or probation.

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              • #8
                If she is convicted you may well be asked to submit a "Victim Impact Report". That is your chance to explain exactly how this has affected you, and I urge you, if you are given this chance, please use it. It can have a huge effect on the sentence the Judge hands out.

                Stay in touch, please!

                S x

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